TRYING TO CONCEIVE

TRYING TO CONCEIVE

HI IV BEEN TRYING TO CONCEIVE FOR 3 MONTHS BUT HAVING TROUBLE I ALREADY AM BLESSED WITH A 15 MONTH SON AND FELL VERY QUICKLY CONSIDERING I HAD A MISCARRIAGE 2 MONTHS BEFORE.

ANYWAY MY LAST PERIOD WAS THE 19TH DEC MY CYCLE IS 28-32 DAYS I WAS DUE ON LAST WEEK BUT NOTHING I HAV DONE A PREGNANCY TEST TODAY WHICH WAS NEGATIVE.

IM SLIGHTLEY CONCERNED BECAUSE THIS HAS ONLY HAPPEND ONCE AND THAT WAS WHEN I WAS PREGNANT. I DONT FEEL PREGANT I HAV NO SICKNESS MY BOOBS FEEL SLIGHTLY DIFFERENT AND I HAV A BURNING PAIN IN MY CHEST BUT THATS IT.

I HAV BEEN TO THE DOCS AND THEY SAID IF IM NOT PREGNANT BY JUNE THEN COME BACK.

IM TRYING TO NOT STRESS OUT AND RELAX, SHOULD I JUST CARRYING ON TTC AND PUT MY LACK OF PERIOD DOWN TO ONE OF THOSE THINGS.

ANY ADVISE AND HELP WOULD B VERY GRATEFUL

THANKYOU 

Re: TRYING TO CONCEIVE In reply to: GeorgieP

Hi sorry to hear your having these problems. Where do I start, when I was trying for my son it took 1 year I thought it would never happen and he's 10 now. If it was me I would wait another week and do a repeat pregnancy test it's maybe too early to do the test, also make sure you are testing first thing in the mornin when the hormone level will be higher. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you, please let me know how it's all going, I'm sure there will be another one running about soon.

LOL

Diane

Edited over 2 years ago

Re: TRYING TO CONCEIVE In reply to: kilpaddy

hi - it took me 13 months to get pregnant with my first and I kept stressing about it every month, all my friends were pregnant and even my gp! but I took her advice which was to just relax, eat healthy, exercise and use an ovulation kit - this worked after 3 months. I don't know why but some of my friends had trouble conceiving second time round it took them longer than they expected so you're not alone. try a repeat pregnancy test and then think about the ovulation tests - good luck x

Re: TRYING TO CONCEIVE In reply to: shelby3470

Thank you, i hav tried ovulatiton kits and thery dont seem to work, i tried before and thet didnt work and i still feel preganant, i honestly thought il fall straight away how niave wished ild started earlier now... 

Re: TRYING TO CONCEIVE In reply to: GeorgieP

hi there!

i have a 5 yr old son and now we are desperatly wanting another!  last yr i fell pregant 3 times... 1st time feel pregant i went 4 scan as didnt no how far on i was i was 9 wks gone but couldnt hear a heart beat!  so they told me to come in 2wks, so we did go back and once again couldnt find heart beat... so they did an internal scan and stil couldnt find 1... but the baby had grown from previous 2 wks.. so they left me another 2 wks and told me to come bk and it was then confirmed i misscaried.. as baby hadnt grown and there was stil no heart beat.. so it was 8 days afta that they could fit me in 4 a d and c.. so once that had happened etc... 3wks later fell pregant again and same happened 4 wks dwn line had misscariage but all came away from me(sorry to b crued)  dont understand y as i had good clean out so body woulda been healthy....... so in october last yr 6mth afta had 1st miscarriage i once again had another misscariage once again all came away from me.... so that was 3 in space of 6mths im soo desperate to have another child i dnt no wat to do.... iv actauly got to stage im jst abot to give up bn tryn 4 soo long then all that happens...

lol

debs xxxx

Re: TRYING TO CONCEIVE In reply to: debIdoos

WOmen build up the HCG hormone that pregnancy tests detect at different rates - even in the same women with different pregnacies. Couple this with the fact that different tests work off different level,s and that could explain the BFN you got.

Leave it a few days and try testing again, Tesco and Asda own brand tests are good and work off a low level of hcg.

 Good luck! Wishing you get a BFP!

Re: TRYING TO CONCEIVE In reply to: GeorgieP

were u on any contraception after having ur son?? x

Re: TRYING TO CONCEIVE In reply to: lifesgood08

 No i havnt used any contraception just condoms which we stopped using in october.

its getting me down it is all i can think about, iv got blood test nxt week if the results come bck ok im going to find another doc, there is no way i can wait another 3 months!!

Re: TRYING TO CONCEIVE In reply to: GeorgieP

You can discuss fertility problems on the consumer health forums www.consumerhealthforums.com