Why don't I enjoy sex?

I need help, I'm 20, had a lot of sexual partners but have never once enjoyed sex. I don't know what it is, I get really turned on before sex and oral is great but I just don't get anything when he penetrates me. It's not painful and I understand he has to find the g-spot or what ever but I've had a lot of sex with a lot of different shapes and sizes and it's always felt the same - like somethings going in and out of me...nothing else! I want to be able to enjoy sex, i'm fed up with faking orgasm's!!

Re: Why don't I enjoy sex? In reply to: nufc2187

Hi, I don't know if I can help but I know how you feel. I haven't had that many partners but I've found sex to be quite boring at times. Like I know what's happening and I know it feels good but very rarely climax. With the climaxing though - it's quite normal, very few women do. I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years and I've found the sex with him much better. We've talked about what feels good and what doesn't. Sometimes the position/angle makes a huge difference. Have you climaxed through oral? Or has a guy never stuck at it long enough? I take ages so the guy needs to be patient and just stick at it! If oral works then maybe you need more clitoral stimulation. Boring as it is, the missionary position is a good place to start with that.

Apologies for the cliche, but when there's been little 'feeling' between myself and the partner then the sex hasn't been as good. Maybe you're finding yourself detached from the experience completely and therefore not feeling what you should. I don't know you so I don't know your feelings.

Otherwise - try a bit of durex play - it's fun and it could help!

Sorry I don't know much more about the subject.

Re: Why don't I enjoy sex? In reply to: mary_g_d

has he tried fingering you? sorry to put it so bluntly! lol but i love it its the only thing i really enjoy dont get me wrong sex is ok and great now and then but if he doesnt got the right angle then it doesnt feel good at all! But try fingering or even try toys! the more turned on you are the better it will be. does he play with your nipples and things while you have sex? have you told him what turns you on if not then thats the place 2 start. good luck hun & sorry again for being blunt!!!

Tell those closest to you that you love them as you never know when they might be gone!

Re: Why don't I enjoy sex? In reply to: mary_g_d

has he tried fingering you? sorry to put it so bluntly! lol but i love it its the only thing i really enjoy dont get me wrong sex is ok and great now and then but if he doesnt got the right angle then it doesnt feel good at all! But try fingering or even try toys! the more turned on you are the better it will be. does he play with your nipples and things while you have sex? have you told him what turns you on if not then thats the place 2 start. good luck hun & sorry again for being blunt!!!

Tell those closest to you that you love them as you never know when they might be gone!

Re: Why don't I enjoy sex? In reply to: nufc2187

Hi, im 23 and same as you i had lots of partners and could never orgasm i had to be drunk, but at 18 i met my soul mate and i could tell him what i needed and how i liked it, i dont know if you are with that someone but maybe its because you dont feel comfortable with them.
Dont be afraid to do a bit of DIY and find how you like it so you can tell the other person what you like.
Ive been in a relationship now for 5yrs and have great sex because i tell him how i want it.

Good luck and hope you get what you want