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I dont know what to do....

Started on Sunday May 18th 2008 at 10.36 AM

katy
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I dont know what to do....

about 1 year ago

i have been with my bf for 10 years and i have a 5 yrold with him.we got engaged about 2 yrs ago.The problem is that i dont know if i still want to b with him anymore.i feel like we are more like friends.there has been cheating on both sides in the past and recently i thought he might have been again but i dont know for certain.I told him a week ago that we shud go separate ways but he was adament that he isnt cheating and that he does love us both and so i let him stay but on the sofa which is where he now sleeps! i just dont know whether i shud try and save this for the sake of our child or to let go.we both work at completely different times so we are like ships passing in the night most times. we dont do romantic things anymore and i get very jealous if i see couples holding hands and being so in love.what shud i do?

Edited about 1 year ago

Hannah
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Re: I dont know what to do.... In reply to: katy

about 1 year ago

I think you are ready for a break Katy, you need to think about what you want, so maybe you need to have a good chat with him, when you are both off work and not doing all the things that families do...rush in and out all the time....try and get a break just the two of you and talk about a fresh start, not dwelling on the past, and see how that goes?...Good luck

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