Men are so grumpy

Men are so grumpy

Please tell me if I am being daft. My husband, own business, not worked for quite a few weeks. I only just getting on at him. He says im always nagging him. Now everything I say is wrong or when I ask what is wrong he just reponds it you with the problem. I am only trying to find out what wrong and everything I say or do is wrong. I dont fancy him when hes like this, as you can imagine most of time he seems un-interesting. My daughter now is getting fed up with his attitude. Am i rambling or just living in real life. Do I want too much out of life !

Re: Men are so grumpy In reply to: ladyfox

Yes men are grumpy! That's all we need to say really! If my husband's had a bad day at work, he won't talk to us properly in the evening, even though I've been at work all day too and have been cooking and cleaning ever since I got back! We used to have the biggest arguments because we were both tired, but now I've learned just to ignore him and me and the girls laugh at him and call him Mr Grumpy.

I'm not saying you're wrong or your partner's wrong, but maybe you could offer solutions and help to him, rather than the more direct approach of "get up off your @rse?!" Men look for a solution rather than someone to talk to (I've found that we're the opposite!).

Hope this helps anyway, am drawing on personal experience here :o)

Keep Smiling and Eat Well :o)

Re: Men are so grumpy In reply to: Nina

will try
thanks for your input

Re: Men are so grumpy In reply to: ladyfox

You are not wrong...you deserve to be spoken to nicely, blimey your only asking how he is etc...tell him that you don't find him attractive when he is grumpy, that might help, men hate to think they can't attract you when they want!...it's like we remove thier super powers or something, they are vain and grumpy, aaah my hubby not grumpy, only on rare occasions, vain, yes, grumpy ,no!!!!

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