having an orgasm

having an orgasm

i have met the man of my dreams and we are getting married. everything is perfect except for one thing. Since i met him i have faked my orgasms with him - not because sex is rubbish but because i have never been able to orgasm through sex and i was just used to faking it. now though i really wanna be able to practice with my man but he thinks i already do orgasm so how can i tell him? i cant tell him ive lied to him all this time!!! but at the same time i cant work on having an orgasm if he thinks i already do!!! we are so honest with everything else but i messed this up from the start and now i dont know how to fix it. help!!!!! x x x

Re: having an orgasm In reply to: shuga

Shuga don't worry about it too much just yet but for gooness sake dont mention it too him yet if he finds out he may be to anxious and this could spoil your flow theres lots of things you could try but women are so much more complex than men it that area. All I can suggest is think long and hard and this is not meant to sound mucky but perhaps take the time to work out just which spot does it for you the best whether its a google search or you workin it out on your own so when you are with your man you can gently guide him to the spot men are simple in that way but women very complex no two women are the same a g spot orgasm is very different than a clitoral one if you can suss it out and get him doing it the way you want he will notice a difference from you faking it but that does not mean he will know you faked he will just think wow and go for that time and time again after all if he loves you it will be very important to him that you get the most you possibly can out of it an if he should ask well all you gotta say is that you enjoy it that way more he's not gonna complain believe me. don't tell him you faked it will just put him under pressure and he may not perform aswell. Above all take your time relax make sure you work out what does it for you and don't stress if you put yourself under pressure like that it may never happen good luck!

Re: having an orgasm In reply to: tim

Why don't you try masturbating it could really help by de-stressing you, which will help you have an orgasm. Don't worry about telling him though, if he really loves you he'll stay with you no matter what!

If go onto sex and then secrets i have posted a comment called great masturbation check out some of my ideas!

Re: having an orgasm In reply to: tim

Why don't you try masturbating it could really help by de-stressing you, which will help you have an orgasm. Don't worry about telling him though, if he really loves you he'll stay with you no matter what!

If go onto sex and then secrets i have posted a comment called great masturbation check out some of my ideas!

Re: having an orgasm In reply to: Tits_on_Wheels

wow tim you hit the nail on thehead with that one! didnt think id ever see you back on here after your little coflict of interests with hannah lol!

Tell those closest to you that you love them as you never know when they might be gone!