sex after marriage

sex after marriage

I have been with my partner for over two years, we were engaged for two years and have been married just over six months.
I dearly love him and i am quite sure he loves me also but when it comes to the bedroom department he just seems to want to go straight into it and not really take his time(and this - even if I am in the mood for lovemaking puts me off and I just do not enjoy it at all because I am unable to get my mind off it during intercourse), the way he used to make love to me before was amazing, but ever since getting married I feel as if I don't attract him anymore.
I am also 6 months pregnant now annd it is making me feel as though my rounded belly is putting him off me, but the thing is I am left unsure about that because he is always caresing, kissing and stroking my belly and is always talking about how he can not wait for the baby to arrive, so where am I?
I would like to talk to him about how I feel, but I do not want to hurt his feelings therefore I do not know how i can go about it?

Re: sex after marriage In reply to: Amie

It sounds like you have a very loving relationship, you've just lost your way a bit when it comes to sex. I think the articles on this website are very good for different positions and getting in the mood, you could try those.

What sometimes works is telling him while you're actually making love what you'd like him to do. Just gentle reminders about what you like. Also, you both need to be relaxed about this and not have too many expectations.

Try making an effort to - like go out for a meal and then come home to a coffee and work your way round to sex like you maybe did when you were dating? Many couples forget to make time for themselves like this - it'll be worse when the baby's born, make the most of it!

It doesn't sound to me like your hubby is put off by your bump but maybe he's scared of hurting you? Men can be funny creatures and I think you'll just need to ask him this one!

Don't sweat the small stuff. It will make you stinky.