Hymen Repair

 Well how do i put this in a nice way!!

When i am on my periods i use tampons, now what i didnt realise is that i could break my Hymen which would usually break during your first sexual intercourse. I am a virgin and on my wedding night(which is quite along way away) i want to bleed so my husband has the reassurence that i am actually a virgin.

Please if anyone knows any surgerys in the UK that does this surgery at an affordable price please let me know, because i am really worried and im actually scared so i really need this. This would make me feel better about myself and give me confidence.

Re: Hymen Repair In reply to: chloe

Umm.......?! Where to start?!

 OK let's start with why this is so important? I'm not challenging your opinion or anything like that - I would honestly like to know the answer. Your hymen can break for many reasons - riding a boke or a horse, sports, etc. Not everyone who has sex the first time bleeds.

Secondly, are you due to get married? If you are, then maybe your future husband won't mind if you don't bleed? My hubby didn't have a clue about all this "woman" stuff when we got married! Have you talked to him about it? It seems a strange request to me, like something from the dark ages - will he prove that he was a virgin?

If you're not due to get married - is this something that you know that's expected of you or is it expectations of yourself?

I'm sorry, I don't know of any place that does this kind of operation. But I would like to talk to you more about this - please answer this message. I hope I haven't offended you. XXX

Don't sweat the small stuff. It will make you stinky.

Re: Hymen Repair In reply to: Nina

i do know that if you dont have sex for years then it will mend itself again! but youd have to stop using tampons or it will keep hapening and wont have a chance to heal! Hope this helps! x

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