clit stimulation

ok so ive only had sex with one person before and we have now been having sex for just under two years. for the first few months he could make me come without having to stimulate my clit....however, for whatever reason now i cannot come without stimulating my clit which he usually makes me do and of course he has now stressed that this makes him feel unmanly.

 i know he gets stressed as Im not as experienced as the other females hes slept with but i do try, and now i know why our sex life has slowed down ALOT...does anyone know any sure fire tips that could help me come without stimulating myself...i do get quite close but then i dont know what happens but i have to help. (this is also the case when i masterbate)

 please help as i fear i will lose it all together

Re: clit stimulation In reply to: loopeylass

have you tried looking up some positions that will mean that his penis will stimulate your clit at the same time as having sex! would save you a lot of trouble! it nothing to worry about! dont be in a panic! just look it up on the net! im sure youl find loads! if i find a link i will send it to you hun! x

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Re: clit stimulation In reply to: Nykita

Thank you so much hun. It's now made me so worried about having sex with him because I hate seeing the disappointed look on his face. And I also hate the feeling of not being able to live up to his previous sexual partners. I shall certainly look in to those positions though. Thank you again.  

Re: clit stimulation

my partner is the second person I have slept with and I know he has had many more partners, before him I hated sex as I was forced into it continuously with my previous partner...due to this, I find it very hard to open and find playing with my clit opens me a lot quicker...my partner actulally finds this a turn on...he sees it as exploring my sexual side...A way I find of stimulating your clit is get on top of him but instead of going up and down, kinda grind against him moivng towads his top then towards his bottom (I applolgise if I am explaining this bad...I have never explained it before). I find this really stimulates the clit. If this is not clear then say so and I will try to explain again...Hope this helps!!!

Re: clit stimulation

hi there loopeylass,

 i think you need to relax you are not doing anything wrong it just so happens that our sexual needs change sometimes, and some people cannot climax through penetration alone they need to be aroused by there man, i see no problem in your man doing this for you, i mean men ask us to make them aroused and feel good, they cannot expect us just to climax through penetration alone we need the extras right?  i think you and your partner need to sit down together and talk it through and sit and tell each other what you like and how you'd like it to be done. explore each other then this might relax you alittle as tension can make it more harder to climax, and also if he makes you climax then you can always repay the favour next time round.  as for not being able to through masterbation, you need to find timealone to find out how your body works try diffrent thing si find things like more magazine and stuff give great tips on these things just explore your body and let your partner to as you will repay to him and have fun, dont stress so much and you'll find it will come together xxxxx  hope this helps  good luck oh p.s i find when your man is on top if you wrap your legs round his body and as someone said grind not go up n down this stimulates the clit at the same time.