boyfriend problems

boyfriend problems

iv been with my boyfriend for 3 years but all the time iv been with him he has always had another girlfriend he now lives with me and tells me he has left the other girl but i dont beleive him because he still goes there every day he has 2 sons with her and i know i cant stop him seeing his kids but when i try to talk to him about going there too much it turns into an argument.we have a daughter together and i feel like he leaves us out to go and see his ex girlfriend and kids everyday and the other day i was reading his fone and he told her he still loves her its breaking my heart but i love him so much what should i do?

Re: boyfriend problems In reply to: lolly2008

I'm sorry but it sounds like you're being taken for a complete mug here. I think your boyfriend is using the fact that you love him so much to trample all over you.

You deserve better than this, I think you need to talk to him, tell him what you know and see what he says. If he cares, he will stop seeing his ex. If he doesn't. then there's your answer.

I know it's going to be hard, but it will be better for you in the long run. X

Don't sweat the small stuff. It will make you stinky.

Re: boyfriend problems In reply to: Nina

 I totally agree Nina... I bet you'd enver treat anyone like that, so don;t accept being treated like it yourself by somebody else. SImple. Sorry to be so harsh!!

Re: boyfriend problems In reply to: Betty345

hey hun dont let him treat you like that! go find a guy that wants you for you and not for your house! find someone who deserves you! you can do better than him! x

Tell those closest to you that you love them as you never know when they might be gone!

Re: boyfriend problems

Either kick him out or pack your bags. If he really cares for you, he'll ditch her.

Unfortunately,cos he has kids with his ex, there will always be a bond or relationsihp, so even if you stay with him you'll have to accept that. good luck

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Re: boyfriend problems

That's great news Lolly - I'm really pleased for you XXX

Don't sweat the small stuff. It will make you stinky.

Re: boyfriend problems

Thats great news Lolly. Good luck and make sure he sticks to his promise :o)