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who do i believe?

Started on Sunday June 29th 2008 at 5.32 PM

bohemiangothic

who do i believe?

about 1 year ago

ive been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and he has spent alot of that time joining websites to meet other women, in total i know about over 300 of them. he has had 4 different email addresses and another mobile phone that he has used to get in touch with women. when i confront him he says he is only talking to these women about our relationship problems yet when i have talked to some of these women none of them know anything about me or our son. some of them even claim to have had sex with him which he denies. who do i believe over this?

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Hannah

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Re: who do i believe?

about 1 year ago

I think you know in yout heart that he is not being totally honest with you....Why does he need this seperate life, where he is single and seems to be available?...Trust your instincts is my advice, you both need to have a detailed talk, and cofronting the problem, may help you to move on, that might make him realise what he has with you and your Son?...Don't let him have this seperate life, and you as well, thats called letting them have their cake and eating it too, Good luck

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hunny

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about 1 year ago

oh my god and uv stayed with him this long ??? sorry hun i really am i know its overwhelmingly hard 2 accept and leave someone when u love them and u have a son 2getha i really simpathise with you but he is probably having sex with theese wimin come on its such a bad bad excuse as well u must know the only person hed have 2 talk about ur realationship with is u or maybe some of his male real life friends and u do know its a load of crap dont u! i know its hard but uv gota get a back bone and b strong u cant let him walk all over u like that becouse he knows hes got u rite wer he wants u please leave him for urself ur worth more than that if i was u id leave him and never get back with him u will 1 day ul have enough 1 day it may b weeks months years but u wont put up with it 4 eva i wish u and ur son the best of luck

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fee fee

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about 1 year ago

What would he do if it was you that had a diffrent phone had been seeing people talkin to people behind his back??? I think he loves himself & thinks hes something special but no man that treats the mother of his child the way he is, is worth the hastle heart ache and pain!!!! I no its hard weve all been there 1 way or another, but your worth so much more than that & if he really did love & care bout you & his son he wouldnt be doin what hes doin. What goes around comes around so 1 day he'll be hurt by some1 and realise what hes done to you. if some1 you knew came to you and told you the exact same thing what would you say???? goodluck in whatever you do but please dont let him treat you like this anymore, and remember you may never trust him again which isnt any good for a relationship either. take care xxx