need help

dont know where to put this

I need help with my boyfriend. I dont know what is worng with him. He wont go near our kids who are 3 and 2. He wont play with them or talk to them and its sad my sister said he could be depressed but i dont think he is.

When i ask him why he wounldnt talk to them he just walks off.

Can anyone help please becasue its getting out of hand now 

Re: need help

Hi Asho,

I'm sorry you're in this situation - you don't really give many details in your message. Do you live with your boyfriend and kids? How long has he been behaving like this? Have a think - is there anything that could have triggered all this? An argument or some upheaval in your lives?

 I don't think there's a lot you can do unless he tells you what the problem is - it sounds as though you're completely mystified. If he won't talk to you face to face, try writing him a letter or sending him a text message saying something like you can see he's upset but that nothing will be resolved like this. Then it's up to him to make contact with you.

Failing that, you could try getting someone you both know to mediate, all sit down together and discuss?

Let me know how you get on anyway X

Don't sweat the small stuff. It will make you stinky.

Re: need help

we have been together for 5 years and i live with him

 when we first want out he was just recoveing from durgs. but i know he wouldnt do them again.

i have tried getting hes brother to talk to him with me there but he said that hes ok so i dont know what im going to do.