Help, please.

Help, please.

Like last year my husband told me he liked to wear girls clothes. I wasnt that upset i was just like whatever makes you happy. Then he took it a step futher and started sticking things up his butt and he even told me he maybe wanted to have a 3sum with a guy. I was really grossed out by this.  After seeing that i was upset he stopped and we never spoke of it again. But like a week or so ago i have found out that he has been looking at crossdressing porn  and lots of other guy on guy porn. I really want to talk to him but i dont know how to do that. Im not sure what i should do. Im kinda scared hes gonna say he is gay. if anyone has any advice id really like it.

thanks.

Re: Help, please.

Hi Manda,

I think you've been handling this situation amazingly well. But I do think you are going to have to talk to your partner about all this and decide where you both want this relationship to go from here.

Have you tried counselling? It can really help. Let me know how you get on anyway.

Don't sweat the small stuff. It will make you stinky.