need some advice

need some advice

hi im back again basically me and my boyfriend have fallen out again big time what started it was i went to stay on his baot at the weekend and for the hole weekend i spent about 2 hours with him as he was up his mates fixing his quad bike ready for the racing sunday i sent him a text saying is there any point me being here? to which he rang me and said if that was meant sarcy then go home if not then please bear with me as it isnt going to plan so i waited on the boat and he came home at midnight knackered and we went to sleep the next day he was cold with me and i thought ill let him go and let off steam for the day and see but after the racing he came to mine and said have you stopped being silly now ill come and see u after work tomorrow on my bike but the next morning he text me saying it wouldnt start and id have to come to him so i replied ok if you want me to to which he said not sure yet ill let u know to which i said fine then he rang and said what was that for and i said well u say ill have to come to u and when i say if u want me to u say not sure yet and he said u know i dont mind u being there so why asked? i said sorry dont get grumpy with me and he said well uve given me the hump now. so after i was really angry after the whole weekend and then that so i sent a text saying well if ur going to be like that we may as well end it now as im sick of being put last by u to which i got back fine then 2 hours later he text saying if thats what u want its not what i want but maybe its for the best by then id calmed down and said i didnt mean it and i was sorry i didnt hear from him all day and then at 1am he text me saying could he have my brothers number so he can talk to him so i text it to him then the next day i sent him a text saying i didnt want it to end like this and that i loved him to which i got back saying sorry but i cant take the hurt every week i do love u but its to much so i sent one saying please listen to ur heart cos thats what he always tells me to do and says thats what he does.i havent heard anything since and i havent text him because everyone is saying give him time to calm down and think but what is confusing me is if it was totally over why hasnt he been round to collect all his clothes and his truck is still here on my drive and he hasnt asked for the key to the boat back or the necklace he lets me wear which means a lot to him as it is the last thing his nan gave him before she died? if it was over surely he would have text or rang saying ill be over at the weekend to get my things as he only has a motorbike at the minute and it would be his mate driving him over in his van