NOT SURE WHAT TO DO

NOT SURE WHAT TO DO

 I KNOW THIS MIGHT SOUND TOTALLY SILLY TO SOME PEOPLE! BUT HERE GOES!

I RECENTLY AGREED TO MEET SOMEONE FROM ONLINE A FEW DAYS AGO, WE HAD BEEN CHATTING FOR SOME TIME AND WE MET THE OTHER DAY SOMEWHERE PUBLIC FOR A QUICK CHAT, HE WAS SWEET AND FUNNY AND REALLY GENUINE AND SEEMED SO NICE BUT ONE PROBLEM IS HIS TEETH ARE NOT THAT GREAT INFACT IT PUT ME OFF A LITTLE BIT, I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO DO I SAY SOMETHINGAND RIK HURTING HIS FEELINGS AS WELL AS EXPLAINING THIS IS WHY HE CANNOT GET PASSED MEETING PEOPLE AND THEY SAY LETS BE FRIENDS TO HIM, OR DO I JUST MOVE ON FIND SOMEONE NEW AND RISK FINIDING YET ANOTHER BAD GUY LIKE I HAVE DONE ALL THE TIMES PAST BEFORE IM REALLY CONFUSED AND I SOUND TOTALLY SNOBBY BUT ITS SOMETHING THATS IMPORTANT TO ALOT OF PEOPLE.  IM NOT USUALLY VAIN ABOUT PEOPLE WHY IS IT BOTHERING ME AND WHAT SHOULD I DO?

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Hi, I'm with you on this one. I don't think it's being snobby. We all have some things that we just can't ignore. Could you look forward to kissing this person etc. You've got the chance to get to know him better and if you really like him you have two choices. Tell himstriaght out that you can't see the relationship advancing because you do like nice teeth. perhaps ask if he has a fear of the dentist and you could offer to go with? The second choice is to just be friends. Would it be easier not face to face. I know I wouldn't chnage my mind about this no matter how much I liked him. It's one of those things I can't overlook! Don't suppose this has helped much but you know you are not alone in the way you feel!! Ann x

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thank you so much for your reply, i was beginning to think it was just me. he has been texting me all day today, hes very attentive and keen and really sweet. im just wondering if im being mad throwing away soemone just cos of his teeth but to be honest i was begging him to to try n kiss me how vain is that! i think he is so nice and so sweet infact hes really nice as well as sexy but this one thing i dunno what the hell to do, if i say lets be mates he will be like yeah like all the others before cant he see this is why they say it to him? xxxx i mean he can see past my extra pounds im not exactly skinny so why cant i but i just cant, why do u think he hasnt noticed this bothers women, why doesnt it bother him if it does wudnt he do somethign to change it if hes scared then admit it as we spoke about what things we didnt like about ourselves and he didnt say anything about that