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what do they really want???

Started on Monday May 25th 2009 at 1.42 PM

flash

what do they really want???

6 months ago

Lately ive had many blokes running after me and im not exactly complaining about it except i think that all that most of them want is sex and its not exactly something i give out easily

i try to keep them happy and sometimes i send provocative photos .

i dont want to feel pressured into doing anything but they kind of dont talk to me if i dont send them anything. im not about to be someones booty call when they want unless i want to be which at the moment i dont.

what do i do??? do i keep going the way i am or do i change and get rid of them and find a decent bloke who wants me for me????? kind of a stupid question but hey i need help clearing my mind

THANKS

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Nina

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6 months ago

Hello there

It sounds to me, from reading your post, that you're not really sure what YOU want from these relationships. I would first think about this and then make it clear to men who give you attention what you're after. No one should feel pressurised into having sex if they don't want to and any one who lets you down if you don't put out isnt worth the bother.

Hope this helps

Nx

Don't sweat the small stuff. It will make you stinky.

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Mooksy

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6 months ago

A bit of attention is nice but getting too much from too many people can make you feel a bit cynical about the possibility of getting more involved with just one person who actually seems worth it.

See if you can get some romantic involvement with someone who's more interested in the whole package not just the pretty wrapping.

It's hard to change things all at once though! But I do hope you meet someone nice enough to make the other guys seem like a bit of a waste of time

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David

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4 months ago

Hey Flash..........I am a normal male..........the ones who lead ladies on in to thinking that its all about something other than sex are the con men.

They are really only after one thing.Normal males do what I do and yes I will treat a lady like a lady and share things with her but at the end of the day the primary factor is sex.I am not gay but if there was no sexual desire to be with a lady I would have a male friend, a mate, to knock around with.Males are driven by testosterone and need to have sex that is why the human population continues to produce generations of boys and girls.As in the paddock bulls chase cows around. If not there are no calfs born.I have had ladies chase me for sex but generally the male chases the female in the human and animal world because biologically that is what we are meant to do, that is what we have been 'designed' to do. It is biological. It is a need. Though often, I must say, the cows want to be "chased around" by the bulls and want sex.So yes, in truth, sex will always be an underlying but primary factor for a male to want to get involved with a female.If /when a girl can keep/keeps her man's testicles empty(ish) she has him all to herself to do whatever they wish to do with each other.David

David

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flash

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4 months ago

wow thakyou all so much for your commentsim sure they will help me heaps when i put them into effect lol i hope i can find a guy who does want me for me and not just the sex i still have hope.

well thanks again

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