sex drive

sex drive

its hard to explain.

i am only 16 and my boyfriend is 17, we have been dating for about a year and half now but only recently started having sex regulary.

iv found i dont have much of a sex drive at all but is always ready to go, i only have to kiss him and he has an erection, but i just cant seem to get in the mood.

sometimes i play along hoping i get eroused.

we have tryed using food like strawberrys and cream but it just seamed to end in him getting eroused and me been covered in saliva and cream, not nice :(

but its starting to get to a point where the stress of having sex or not it afecting our relationship.

i dont know if its normal for my not to be bothered about sex when my partener is.

i am scread that if i cant give him the sexual satisfaction he will go someplace else for it and ether dump me for someone else or just cheat on me but nether is good.

Re: sex drive

 Hey,

 I'm 16 too, and have been with my boyfriend for over a year too. and I also have the same problem!

Do you have msn? add me and we can talk. it's really starting to irritate me too; and sometimes I do worry that he will leave me.

I don't know what's wrong with me :(

add me;; jadi333b33[at]hotmail.co.uk

xxx

Re: sex drive

 sorry i dont have msn on my current pc,

im still having this problem and like you i am scared he will leave me too,

one of my closest friends (who is also friends with my partner) said that i might be bored sexually but my relationship is still working well.

i have tried new things with him but i just dont seem to enjoy them as much as him.

we have talked and he says he dosent need sex to be happy although i feel selfish by not having sex any more because he is just 17and needs to keep his sex drive healthy.

 I think talking to your partner would be the best solution and try suggesting new things. Go on the internet and find new stuff to try out :P I'm sure your partner will be willing to help if he knows you are unhappy. 

Good luck

Re: sex drive

 Maybe talk to him about it? Some people have different libidos and enjoy different bits of sex. Why don't you find out what it is you enjoy and then try to do more of that?

Re: sex drive

If he loves you he wont leave you, i know you love him but if he leaves he wasnt worth your time effort or adoration. Try looking at the sex tips on here they helped me and my fiance when we were looking to spice things up. i hope you both work it out with your boyfriends good luck girls! xx