should i leave

should i leave

I am 30 years old married with 2 gorgeous kids.  I love my husband but im not in love with him, there is no spark at all although we get on well, we very rarely have sex.  I know he is looking at porn and is obviously still interested in sex just never seems to instigate it but neither do i.  i have recently had feeling for someone else and although nothing happened it has made situation with my husband worse.  I feel like i live in limbo but i dont feel ready to leave as i worry about the kids and how i will manage on my own as we both have same group of friends? any advise???

Re: should i leave

i say if ur deep down dont luv him anymore u gotta leave...true there are kids 2 look out for but u could always see them or their da cud come c them often if u do split up

i know its hard for kids when their parents split up but really do u wanna stay with a man u dont even love..

i'd rather have sum1 stay with me becose they genuinly luvd me not cos they feel like they have 2

n cos ur down n upset ur kids might b seeing how unhappy u r n that might get them down as well so if u move on fom this life become happy maybe it will be a good thing 4 tha kids