Stopping your toddler using a dummy

Going cold turkey from a dummy and stopping completely overnight may be suitable for you.

Alternatively, a more gradual approach can be less traumatic. Whichever you opt for, she's going to need plenty of extra cuddles and reassurance. Giving up a comforter is a big step for a toddler, so don't change anything else for a while.

If cold turkey seems too extreme for you both, limiting the dummy's use to three or four times a day is a good way to start. Then gradually work towards once a day, and then stopping. Whatever regime you choose, stick to it. It won't be fair on her if you keep changing the rules.

Offer her an alternative, such as a hug or story. If she gets upset, distract her with a toy, drink or trip out.
Annette Maloney, health visitor.

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