Potty training made easy
You're under pressure because your toddler's still in nappies and she won't be allowed to start nursery unless she's toilet trained.
All the other mums seem to have cracked it, so why can't you? Follow our simple advice on what to do...
Your 7-step plan
1. Use your instinct.
You'll know when they're ready. Look out for the signs - talking about a wet nappy, telling you they want the loo or pulling off nappies.
2. Relax.
If you're tense about the toilet - your toddler will be too. Choose a week that's good for you to make this a priority.
3. Really go for it.
Dispose of the nappies. Challenge yourself to keep your nerve - and them in pants.
4. Make a decision
Decide if you want to use a potty or go straight to a trainer toilet seat. If you use a potty, put it in the bathroom - not the TV room.
5. Accidents will happen.
Don't be negative and make a fuss. This is all new for them too.
6. Good habits are caught not taught.
Let them go to the toilet with you and sit them on the potty or toilet at times they usually fill their nappy.
7. Excite them
Use a sticker chart for when they go to the toilet - and letting them choose 'big boy' or 'girl pants' will motivate them to stay dry.
Lorraine Thomas, childcare expert
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By Lorraine Thomas, childcare expert
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anna, 6 days [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]
my son will be 3yr's old next month,& he is still in a nappy,im worried because he starts school soon & my doctor said he should be out of nappy's.but i've tried him on the potty a few week's ago & he was doing really well going a wee on it,but he wont go a poo on it & now he wont go on it full stop.& whenever i take his nappy off so he can try & use it he get's upset & starts crying till i put him back in a nappy. I NEED HELP & FAST.has anyone got any usefull tip's for me 2 try.