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Stopping your children squabbling

Stopping your children squabbling

Where possible, avoid getting involved in causes and blame. Moving on quickly will soothe ruffled feathers. Squabbles will pass quicker when you're calm, and keeping your voice low will pacify tempers.

Try to spot triggers for rows, such as tiredness, hunger and boredom. If possessions are a catalyst, set aside an area for each child to keep special toys, as well as an area for shared playthings.

Show them how to play nicely, by demonstrating turn-taking, sharing and helping each other. When they get it right, give lots of praise. The more you notice them getting on, the more they repeat that behaviour.

Try to give each of them individual time with you, as this helps all relationships. And remember to take time out to recharge your batteries; it does wonders for keeping your cool under pressure!
Annette Maloney, health visitor.

By Annette Maloney

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