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If you have a son, you need to start play-fighting with him as it will help him grow into a well-adjusted adult. Previous research thought that play-fighting was harmful, but now there is evidence that boys who don't play-fight with their dads or mums can end up being bullied or turn into bullies themselves, because they want to exert themselves. It forces children to confront how they relate to other people. But of course, parents shouldn't be so rough that they actually hurt their kids.
Prof Charlie Lewis, professor of developmental psychology at Lancaster University and father

Father involvement gives good protection against bullying. Kids who are involved with their fathers, and this includes play-fighting, seem to carry a confidence that protects them against bullying and helps them grow up into happier adults.
Jack O'Sullivan, co-founder of Fathers Direct, the National Information Centre on Fatherhood

By Professor Charlie Lewis and Jack O'Sullivan

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