Don't feel guilty for not having a bottomless purse. Especially if you want to give them things you never had. It helps to be calmly honest and explain what you think is value for money and what is affordable.

When you say no it may help to talk to your child about why. It could be that you can't afford it or that you only just bought them something last week. 'Just because I say so' is sometimes not enough for your child to understand the decision. But be firm so you don't get caught in the trap of haggling if your child has an answer for everything.
Parentline Plus, www.parentlineplus.org.uk

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