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'I want a baby!' What to do if your partner doesn't

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'I want a baby and he doesn't - what should I do?'

We sympathise if you and your partner are arguing about whether to start a family. There's no easy answer, but men do have a few common fears that you may be able to address together. Understanding what they are, and knowing how to respond, will help you to understand each other's points of view and make a decision that suits everyone.

However, it's important to remember that his opinion is just as valid as yours, and under no circumstances should you consider 'tricking' him into getting you pregnant. If you're feeling desperate for a child, it may seem very tempting to just 'forget' to take your pill, especially if you think he'll be a great dad and just needs to be 'pushed' into action. But no matter how you try to justify it, you would still be lying to him, and a healthy family foundation should be built on trust, not deception.

Here are 8 of the most common reasons your partner might not want a baby, and how to respond...

'I'm too young to settle down. I want to have fun'

Solution: How old is he? Maybe he is too young - maybe you both are. Ask yourself if he could be right? Are you trying to hurry him without good cause? Could you afford to wait a few years?

If you're concerned about your fertility and really do think that time is running out, calmly explain why. Men can still have babies in their seventies so perhaps his biological clock isn't ticking quite as loudly as yours. Remind him that the older you are, the more difficult it can be to conceive - but imagine the fun you could have trying!

'I'm too old, I don't want to look like a grandfather'

Solution: Point out the advantages of being a more mature parent. Reassure him that children don't care how old their dad is, providing he loves them and takes an interest in their lives. You don't have to be 25 to push a swing or read a bedtime story.

Older dads are often wiser and more patient with their children - that's far more important than being able to run a marathon with them.

'My mates have put me off'

Solution: New dads like to frighten their mates with horror stories about babies. The sleepless nights, the endless crying, and the lack of sex are real enough, but they don't last forever. However, he's not going to take your word for it, so let his mates put him straight.

Tell them to cut down the stories (they've scared him enough) and ask them to bring a few baby photographs along the next time they meet up. Pictures of other dads holding babies are often cute enough to get him thinking...

'I'm not ready yet, stop nagging me'

Solution: Tell him you know that having children is a massive decision and of course you don't want to rush him into it, but you need some sort of time-frame, otherwise you'll think he's just stringing you along. He's right about nagging though, because it really doesn't work.

You can't nag him into having a child, so now that you've made your point, promise to stop talking about babies for a couple of months. In return, he must promise to sit down and talk seriously about it again, once the agreed time has lapsed.

'I'm happy as we are. I don't want to share you'

Solution: Tell him you love him and are happy too, but having a child would make you even happier and bring you both great joy. Try to see his point of view though. Having children does change your life completely and the changes can be tough at first. He's probably scared that you'll be so preoccupied with the baby you'll forget about him. Explain that although a baby may keep you busy, it won't stop you loving him. Reassure him that love doesn't run out - you will have enough for both of them.

'We can't afford it. Children cost a fortune and money's tight already'

Solution: This is a fair point, so don't dismiss it outright. Instead of saying 'oh don't worry about money, babies don't have to cost very much', tell him you've had the same thoughts too but feel you could make it work. Then sit down with him and explain carefully how you think you could manage it, without going into debt. If he can see that you're taking the practical issues seriously, he will take you more seriously too.

'I've got kids already, I don't want any more'

Solution: Have you known this all along? If he has children from a previous relationship and has always been open and honest about not wanting any more, there's very little you can do. You can explain how much you would like to have a baby together, but expecting him to change his mind, isn't fair. Instead, focus on what you already have. His children may not be your flesh and blood but you still have a very important part in their life. Step-children can bring great love and fulfilment, but if you'd always secretly be wishing for a child 'of your own' you might not feel those positives. Trying for a baby can impact your whole relationship, so you need to have a frank conversation about where you both see your futures going, and whether you can find a compromise that won't leave one of you unhappy.

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'I've changed my mind - what's wrong with that?'

Solution: Everyone's entitled to change their mind, but you are also entitled to be disappointed, especially if he had previously led you to believe he DID want children. You need to be honest with him and let him see how upset you are. Tell him you have some serious thinking to do. Unless you can completely accept his decision and see yourself living quite happily together without children, then you may need to think about how far you can realistically progress as a couple. Ignoring the disagreement can lead to feelings of bitterness and resentfulness towards him in the future, when it's too late to go back. However, you should take your time making this decision - if you need more help, contact a relationships charity such as Relate, who can help you work through your emotions.

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Very sad man

There's a very sexist assumption running through this text... in my case it was me having to convince HER that we should be trying... and that's always harder than the other way round because of course I couldn't swap her pills for something less effective! She always delayed, always had reasons not to start trying, and reasons not to seek help when things didn't work, and then didn't want to try an alternative routes to having a family. Result.... no babies.....

lynda 40

hi im lynda im 40 iv been married 26 years my husband 19 years old then me i realy want a baby befor my time runs out all he says is no he to old PLEASE HELP ME FIND AWAY IN CHANGING HIS MIND

very sad

I am 33 he is 36 married nearly 4 years first marriage for both of us I am desperate to have a child he said before marriage he wants children too bu keeps putting it off. His sister has one and one on the way and our lives seem to have yo revolve around her, her child is the only thing the family talk about and it makes me feel worse.

Unhappy Wife

I'm 29 in a few days, my husband is 30. I have a child from a previous realtionship his 4. I really wanted to have a another child. I was hoping they would be close in age, so they have a close bond. My Husband said he wanted kids before we got married and his telling people we will be having one in a couple of years. Now he is telling me he does not want any children of his own. I feel I have been strung along. What I don't understand is he has made a commitment to me through Marraige and a committment to our son. This is putting a strain on our marraige, I love him enough to stay with him, if we had tried and it didn't happen, I feel I shouldn't stay with if he is prepared to make me resent him for the rest of our lifes. Is that Fair?

Janell

I am 33 with 2 children, he is 38 with 2 children, both from prior relationships. We have been together for almost 7 years. We have talked about having a baby nearly 4 years ago and he keeps putting off talking about it. He has told me a few times that he really wants one but has never actually tried to make one. I am burning inside because i feel he is stringing me along. It is hurting me and its making me want to leave him i dont know how to handle this calmly.

donna

i've been with my partner for over seven years. i got divorced 9 years ago and have a child from that relationship. although, of course, i'm grateful for having the child i have, i'm desperate for another. but everytime i bring up the subject my partner shuts down on me. he accuses me of 'picking on him' and 'trying to start an arguement'. all i'm trying to do is explain how important this is to me and see if it's ever an option with him. i really don't know what to do, i'm 33 next month and i feel it's be with the man i love or have the baby my heart is desperately longing for. :(

Really Sad Wife

Hi I'm 28 years old and I don't know if it's becuase I'm getting closer to 30 but I want a baby more than anything in the world. I can't get it out of my mind, all my friends have kids and eveywhere I look I see people with babies or pregnant, it's killing me! My husband is saying that he never wants any children, before we got married he always just said he wasn't ready right now (and neither was I at the time) but now that I am ready he's saying never. I don't know what to do, besides just sayin gno and getting mad he won't talk about it with me. He doesn't even want to deal with the subject...If I never have a babyI will not be happy and I'm afraid this might end my marriage :(

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sobroody

This is one of the hardest things ever - i am 36 and having been in previous difficult relationships i found the guy i want to spend the rest of my life with - but he doesn't want children. Most days I feel like a ticking time bomb, what can i do the urge to have a family is so strong its overwhelming. We've been together 3 years we're a great team but on this matter we differ. He just sees all the negatives loss of sleep, expense. My need to nuture and care for children is just so much. I have tried to walk away but that feels so wrong. Am completely stuck between a rock and a hard place saddening to hear of those of you that have waited and lost out i would seriously consider adoption if that was me... i'm not quite at that place yet.

CandyCane

I read your post and noticed it was posted in 2008.. So you'll be close to 22, does that still stick to have a baby at 22 or have you had one? Alot of guys say wait till this time to see if you change your mind or just to give them time thinking its 4yrs from now will be ages till it pops up lol.. Am just wondering as am sorta in the same boat, i hope you got what you wanted i dont think guys realise how important it can be to us girls we have the instincts for babies :) Would love to hear back from you :) xx

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I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We are talking about getting engaged, married and having children in the future. About 10 months ago I woke up and had the strongest need to have children. We are 23 years old, got our own place, both in stable jobs and have money spare at the end of every month. I have used all the approaches suggested in this article and others, but he is being so stubborn. I know that if I became pregnant by accident he would be happy, so am tempted to do the bad thing and poke holes in the condoms, but I dont want to have a baby with him this way. However, I can't see any other options at this point. The feelings are getting stronger!

kate

i want a baby but i have six children ime probly selfish i also have 3 with special needs my partner sez no

lisa

well i've been with my partner for 7years now about 2years ago we had a misscarriage but i'm good and ready to try again but i find it really hard to talk to him about it i say to him when can we start making a family of are own and it's like getting water out of a stone he makes me feel so upset an that he dont ever want kids befor i got pregnant 2years ago i was shocked that it happend as i was really bad at nagging him for it an he just kep putting it off making all kinds up not to have one its not the right time we need to save up we need to do this an that god if only i got a pound for ever time he let me down i would be a millionair, but i got what i wanted 7weeks down the line we lost it now he is alot older than me 16years we have are own home perfect for a family close to good schools parks gardnes shops everythink you need is right on our door step we have full time jobs some bills but who dosen't i just find it hard to talk to him about having kids in its been almost 3years now and i'm back at the start i've not asked him or even nagged him about about 2nights go i brought it up I SAID SO WHEN WE GOING TO START MAKING A FAMILY HE SAID NOT THIS YEAR SO I SAID NEXT YEAR HE SAID NOT SURE AND THAT WAS THE END OF THAT CONFO it really worrys me if he ever wants kids he is 40 year of age an still not sure what he wants now im 24 and for as long as i've been with he know dam well that i want or wanted kids im in a place of my mind that im a mum but with no baby i dream about 3 time a week of having kids i when i wake up all i ever want to do is fall back asleep and go back to my dream life what do i do how can i tell him how i feel if we cant even have that talk it makes me mad really i get fire in my belly when he just brushes it off HELP WHAT CAN I DO..

Amz

I am nearly 28 and really broody. My boyfriend of 2.5 years already has a child who is 3. We have had discussions in the past and he was adamant that he didn't want anymore children as he didn't have a very good experience the first time. Since then I have talked to him about the fact that I am broody and would like to have a child with him and that I'm not the same girl as his ex and things would be different this time. He has since said that he just doesn't want another right now but we could talk about it again next year. I thought I was ok with that but I still think about having a baby every single day. Please could you help with some advice as I'm really struggling.

sad sally

My husband and I have been married for 3 1/2 years. together for 4. And we had talked a little about kids, but not much it always seemed like a touchy subject for him. Neither of us have kids this is both our first marriage. And I want a baby so bad. Part of me dont but I am not sure if that is the part where he dont. We had just recently agreed on not having any. but its eating me so bad. I dont want years to go by and me not be able to have any! but I cant see me life with out him. What should I do.. I will be 25 in about 7 mo. please help me.. I am torn between my wonderful husband and a baby.

lizzi

If he doesn't want children and you do, don't waste your time, find another man fast! I waited four years to have children, because my husband wasn't "ready". After that he agreed to have a child, and after that we had another. Both times the baby was planned by both of us, but he was always running from his responsibilities. As a result, he is working in a different continent, he doesn't speak with ne or the kids, and I'm raising my kids as a single parent. If he tells you he doesn't want kids, it means he's not mature enough to have them. Leave him now, he will never grow up emotionally enough to become a father. In rare cases a child could bring the couple closer, but you better not bet on it, it might never happen.

joanne whittall

hi im 23 i have 2 children 7 and 3 bin with my partner 5years now an i really want another baby iv just had my coil removed but now hes sayin hes not ready after he sed i could av my coil out i really dont no wat to do plz help

confused

i have been with my new partner for only 8 months. he said that he would like more children but i was adamant in not wanting any. he then started agreeing with me saying that he was too old and that he didnt't want any either. then recently I found out that i am pregnant even though i was on the pill.. What can I do - he says he doesn't want me to leave but he is not keen on having the baby he would prefer not to have it. please give me some advice.

Ryan

Well from a guys prospective, I dont think many guys want children, and the ones who do it is mre about "marking" than it is about raising. I think for the most part you have to rely in part on the innate biological drive to procreate. Once the baby is there, hormones take over (reason why cavemen, didn't eat their young in times of need). But I dont know, I am not fond of children and have none of my own. my wife wants to start trying, so if we do I am sure I will grow fond of the little nugget. But wanting childeren is a woman thing, you are built for it.

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i am 26 and i am working with a time frame. all the women in my family have had a hysterectomy at the age of 30 so all my family members had their kids young. i have been with my man for 7 years and he says he wants a baby but he doesnt give me a time frame he will be 32 this year and i want a baby but he keeps saying the world is a mess and why would you want to bring a baby into this world? what do i do i am to the point where i am thinking of leaving him. i love him so much and hate to think like that but having a baby is the one thing that i want the most in my life. any advice

Alices Owens

My names is Alice Owens am from Canada i want to use this opportunity to thank Dr guru the great doctor who bring back my husband which makes me very happy today so i could not keep the wonderful work he has done for me so i decide to share it with you all because he is real not like those who eat up my money and never do anything for me, i have 2 lovely kids for my husband, about 3 years ago my husband and i has been quarreling about some things he is doing that he had not been doing before,like keeping late at night and drinking i don't know that my husband is having a secret affair with a lady close to my street they do meet after work at one hotel,one day i felt that this is too much to bear then i confronted him one night but he did not listen instead he beat me up in front of our kids then he finally left me for the lady. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they will never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i couldn’t control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and i always wish he will come back to me, until one day i met a good friend of mine that was also in a situation like me but her problem was her ex-boyfriend who she had an unwanted pregnancy for and he refused to take responsibility and dumped her. she told me that mine was a small case and that i shouldn’t worry about it at all so i asked her what was the solution to my problems and she gave me this great Doctor email address drgurulovespelltemple@yahoo.com. i was doubting if this man was the solution,because i have tried so many fake Doctor on the internet but they only eat up my money and never work for me so i contacted this great man and he told me what to do and i deed them all, he told me to wait for just 12hours and that my husband will come crawling on his kneels just for forgiveness so i faithfully deed what this great man asked me to do and for sure after 12hours i heard a knock on the door i went and open the door, in a great surprise i saw him on his kneels and i was speechless, when he saw me, all he did was crying and asking me for forgiveness, from that day, all the pains and sorrows in my heart ran away,since then i and my husband and our lovely kids are living happily.that is why i want to say a big thanks to Dr guru This great man made me to understand that there is know problem on earth that has no solution so please if you know that you have this same problem or any problem that is similar, i will advise you to contact this great doctor through his mail drgurulovespelltemple@yahoo.com and he will solve your problem

melisa

I am melisa from USA,i am very happy today because of what the great Dr guru has done in my life. I got married to my loving husband 2 years ago and we were living a happy life together as young couples and everything was moving on smoothly without any problem, 6 months later I went to the hospital for checkup and the doctor confirmed that I am three weeks pregnant with my heart filled with joy and my face full of smile and laughter I went home hurriedly to brake the good news to my dearly husband and he was very happy about the news and that night is a night I will always live to remember, to cut the story short after I have put to birth he was very happy, you have to see our bouncing baby boy, but along the line and all of a sudden he started keeping late night and going to club and doing things he don't use to do before, and one mourning I confronted him about his new attitude but he ignore my advice, but to my greatest surprise I discover my husband have a mistress in his working place and they were seeing each other after work hour. on one faithful night my husband came back home and started packing all his belongings and told me that he is tired of me that he is filing for a annulment not knowing that his mistress has cast love spell on him that was why he was acting strange so I told my friend happiness in my working place so she gave me this contact drgurulovespelltemple@gmail.com an d ask me to contact him that he will help me to bring back my husband in noon less than three days so when I got home I contacted him and he told me that my husband is under a great love spell but he promise to help bring back my husband which he actually did within the period of three days. I was surprise to see my husband on one blessed mourning kneeling at my doorstep asking for my forgiveness saying it is the work of the devil that he did not know when he did what he has done and I forgive him and today we are living happily together. all thanks to great Dr. guru for his great help in my family for helping me to restore my lost joy to my family, in-case you have similar case or even worst than my own you can contact him with his EMAIL ADDRESS: drgurulovespelltemple@gmail.com

melisa

I am melisa from USA,i am very happy today because of what the great Dr guru has done in my life. I got married to my loving husband 2 years ago and we were living a happy life together as young couples and everything was moving on smoothly without any problem, 6 months later I went to the hospital for checkup and the doctor confirmed that I am three weeks pregnant with my heart filled with joy and my face full of smile and laughter I went home hurriedly to brake the good news to my dearly husband and he was very happy about the news and that night is a night I will always live to remember, to cut the story short after I have put to birth he was very happy, you have to see our bouncing baby boy, but along the line and all of a sudden he started keeping late night and going to club and doing things he don't use to do before, and one mourning I confronted him about his new attitude but he ignore my advice, but to my greatest surprise I discover my husband have a mistress in his working place and they were seeing each other after work hour. on one faithful night my husband came back home and started packing all his belongings and told me that he is tired of me that he is filing for a annulment not knowing that his mistress has cast love spell on him that was why he was acting strange so I told my friend happiness in my working place so she gave me this contact drgurulovespelltemple@gmail.com an d ask me to contact him that he will help me to bring back my husband in noon less than three days so when I got home I contacted him and he told me that my husband is under a great love spell but he promise to help bring back my husband which he actually did within the period of three days. I was surprise to see my husband on one blessed mourning kneeling at my doorstep asking for my forgiveness saying it is the work of the devil that he did not know when he did what he has done and I forgive him and today we are living happily together. all thanks to great Dr. guru for his great help in my family for helping me to restore my lost joy to my family, in-case you have similar case or even worst than my own you can contact him with his EMAIL ADDRESS: drgurulovespelltemple@gmail.com

Justics Flora

Am so sorry for posting this good and wonderful news late.Its just the happiness that took me away and i was with my lover all through the weekend.My lover left me for over 2years and i came in contact with Dr Ogudu on the 18 of May 2014,i told him my problem and he laughed he said he can bring back my lover back to me before 19 of May .i was thinking he was trying to make me happy and also scam me off my money.Well i just had a second taught which i gave it a try.Really on the 19 of May i got a call and had it was Tabert voice he was in tears on the phone and i asked him whats was the problem he said i should please forgive him and that he wants to come back home and be with me forever Which i told him to come home he came he bought me lots of gift and we both celebrated our reunion Wow i just said Dr Ogudu must be a man of his word not like other spell caster who come online to add pain and sorrow to someone's life.Please friends am so sorry for posting this late because i know some of you would had love to be with your lover this new month But there is still a chance to be in the arms of the person you love and enter a new Month because i believe that will be better.Please people that needs help can contact Dr Ogudu on his private mail Oguduspellcast@gmail.com or Mobile Number +2348106058254 NAME:justics flora Country:SPAIN.....

Justics Flora

Am so sorry for posting this good and wonderful news late.Its just the happiness that took me away and i was with my lover all through the weekend.My lover left me for over 2years and i came in contact with Dr Ogudu on the 18 of May 2014,i told him my problem and he laughed he said he can bring back my lover back to me before 19 of May .i was thinking he was trying to make me happy and also scam me off my money.Well i just had a second taught which i gave it a try.Really on the 19 of May i got a call and had it was Tabert voice he was in tears on the phone and i asked him whats was the problem he said i should please forgive him and that he wants to come back home and be with me forever Which i told him to come home he came he bought me lots of gift and we both celebrated our reunion Wow i just said Dr Ogudu must be a man of his word not like other spell caster who come online to add pain and sorrow to someone's life.Please friends am so sorry for posting this late because i know some of you would had love to be with your lover this new month But there is still a chance to be in the arms of the person you love and enter a new Month because i believe that will be better.Please people that needs help can contact Dr Ogudu on his private mail Oguduspellcast@gmail.com or Mobile Number +2348106058254 NAME:justics flora Country:SPAIN...

Mirable

I am KESHYI MENIYE from UK. I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in may this year on a business summit. I meant a man who’s name is Dr. OBUDO (dr.obudospellhome@hotmail.com) he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 4years. I really loved him, but his family was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told Dr .OBUDO what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 8 days when i returned to UK, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better. His email is DR.OBUDOSPELLHOME@HOTMAIL.COM

Mirable

Good day my name is Moses am from USA, i don't just know how to say this, am short of words i never new that there are spell casters who can truly bring back lost love,but Dr OBUDO has showed me that there are real spell casters,he brought back my love after i have been scammed by some thief's who clams to be spell casters, i was in love with a girl she loved me and i loved her too,suddenly she started behaving negatively towards me,one morning she just woke up and told me she is tired of the relationship, i was so surprised because i never did anything wrong to her since we have been in relationship for good 4years i do respect her so much just because of the love i have for her,so i decided to plead with her to forgive me if i have wronged her unknowingly, but she insisted to quite,that was how we broke up since 2years ago, i could not do without her because i love her so much, she left me and she no longer pick my calls,then i have been looking for how to get her back to my life, i have been contacting some thief's only who clams to be spell casters they scammed me of my money, then i decided not to contact any spell caster again,until a friend of mine introduced me to Dr OBUDO he told me that Dr OBUDO helped his sister in getting back her love few weeks ago then i decided to give a try for the last time due to the evidence i saw, then i contacted him and told him everything and how i have been scammed the only thing he told me was that am lucky for contacting him that my love will come back to me within 24 hours,then i told him that is not possible then he told me to watch and see,that was how i decided to wait and see what will happened in the next 24hours,immediately the 24hours got complete surprisingly i got a call from her i was shocked she was crying on the phone pleading to me that i should forgive her,at first i taught it was a dream,but i now realized that this is reality so i have to forgive her because that is what i have been looking for,within the next 5hours she came to my house still pleading for forgive then i told her i have forgiven her and now we are living happily than ever before, i thank you Dr OBUDO, if you need his help you can contact him through his private mail:DR.OBUDOSPELLHOME@HOTMAIL.COM

Trucker Stacey

My name is tucker stacey.This is a very joyful day of my life because of the help Dr.Trust has rendered to me by helping me get my ex husband back with his magic and love spell. i was married for 6 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Trust email on the internet on how he help so many people to get thier ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good. He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really enjoying my marriage, what a great celebration. i will keep on testifying on the internet because Dr.Trust is truly a real spell caster. DO YOU NEED HELP THEN CONTACT DOCTOR TRUST NOW VIA EMAIL: Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or call +2348156885231 or ultimatespellcast@gmail.com. He is the only answer to your problem and make you feel happy in your relationship. ..

Trucker Stacey

My name is tucker stacey.This is a very joyful day of my life because of the help Dr.Trust has rendered to me by helping me get my ex husband back with his magic and love spell. i was married for 6 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Trust email on the internet on how he help so many people to get thier ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good. He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really enjoying my marriage, what a great celebration. i will keep on testifying on the internet because Dr.Trust is truly a real spell caster. DO YOU NEED HELP THEN CONTACT DOCTOR TRUST NOW VIA EMAIL: Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or call +2348156885231 or ultimatespellcast@gmail.com. He is the only answer to your problem and make you feel happy in your relationship

Trucker Stacey

My name is tucker stacey.This is a very joyful day of my life because of the help Dr.Trust has rendered to me by helping me get my ex husband back with his magic and love spell. i was married for 6 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Trust email on the internet on how he help so many people to get thier ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good. He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really enjoying my marriage, what a great celebration. i will keep on testifying on the internet because Dr.Trust is truly a real spell caster. DO YOU NEED HELP THEN CONTACT DOCTOR TRUST NOW VIA EMAIL: Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or call +2348156885231 or ultimatespellcast@gmail.com. He is the only answer to your problem and make you feel happy in your relationship. ........

Trucker Stacey

My name is tucker stacey.This is a very joyful day of my life because of the help Dr.Trust has rendered to me by helping me get my ex husband back with his magic and love spell. i was married for 6 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Trust email on the internet on how he help so many people to get thier ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good. He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really enjoying my marriage, what a great celebration. i will keep on testifying on the internet because Dr.Trust is truly a real spell caster. DO YOU NEED HELP THEN CONTACT DOCTOR TRUST NOW VIA EMAIL: Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or call +2348156885231 or ultimatespellcast@gmail.com. He is the only answer to your problem and make you feel happy in your relationship. ...

Trucker Stacey

My name is tucker stacey.This is a very joyful day of my life because of the help Dr.Trust has rendered to me by helping me get my ex husband back with his magic and love spell. i was married for 6 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Trust email on the internet on how he help so many people to get thier ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good. He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really enjoying my marriage, what a great celebration. i will keep on testifying on the internet because Dr.Trust is truly a real spell caster. DO YOU NEED HELP THEN CONTACT DOCTOR TRUST NOW VIA EMAIL: Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or call +2348156885231 or ultimatespellcast@gmail.com. He is the only answer to your problem and make you feel happy in your relationship. .

Trucker Stacey

My name is tucker stacey.This is a very joyful day of my life because of the help Dr.Trust has rendered to me by helping me get my ex husband back with his magic and love spell. i was married for 6 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Trust email on the internet on how he help so many people to get thier ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good. He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really enjoying my marriage, what a great celebration. i will keep on testifying on the internet because Dr.Trust is truly a real spell caster. DO YOU NEED HELP THEN CONTACT DOCTOR TRUST NOW VIA EMAIL: Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or call +2348156885231 or ultimatespellcast@gmail.com. He is the only answer to your problem and make you feel happy in your relationship. ,,,,,

Trucker Stacey

My name is tucker stacey.This is a very joyful day of my life because of the help Dr.Trust has rendered to me by helping me get my ex husband back with his magic and love spell. i was married for 6 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Trust email on the internet on how he help so many people to get thier ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good. He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really enjoying my marriage, what a great celebration. i will keep on testifying on the internet because Dr.Trust is truly a real spell caster. DO YOU NEED HELP THEN CONTACT DOCTOR TRUST NOW VIA EMAIL: Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or call +2348156885231 or ultimatespellcast@gmail.com. He is the only answer to your problem and make you feel happy in your relationship.

mary

what can i say in this life again,My name is Mary..how will i thank Dr okosobo for the good job which he just did for me.i have been searching the net for long now for me to get who to help me get back my husband back but i have been scammed with a lot of people who claim they are spell casters,so i was tired of searching then one morning i had about this man DR Okosobo on radio how people was testifying about him, how he help then to solve their problem and bring back their loss one in their relationship. and i contacted him and he make a prayer to me through phone in the night and after the prayer he tell me what to do and i did it and immediately the thing was done he gave me assurance that my husband will start looking for me and pleading me for me to accept him back and i was kind of not sure and what make me amaze he said just 2days after this that is when he will come and as i am talking to you people now my husband came back to me just yesterday which make it complete 2days as he said and now i am very happy. i want to say this man is the best spell caster to work with,anybody act their ready my testimony or looking for help,kindly contact,he shall but a simile on your face and make you happy. you can contact Dr okosobo through this email OKOSOBOSPELLTEMPLE66@GMAIL.COM...he his a good spell caster and you can call him

lovespell

My name is RUTH from USA, My ex-boyfriend dumped me five months ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don’t know what to do, so i confided in a friend who got me introduced to Dr okun of okuntemple@gmail.com that he was the one that helped her to stop her divorce between her husband so i went to the internet to really look see if i could see anything about this temple so I saw various testimonies of people about Dr okun of okuntemple@gmail.com how he has helped them to get their ex back so I contacted him and explain my problem to him and he told me what he required to enable him cast my reunion spell and i did provided them and he assured me that my man will be back in nine days since that was the spell result i was able to afford To my greatest surprise on the ninth day as he has said my ex came knocking on my door and begging for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and our relationship has become so passionate and compassionate guess he just proposed to me two days ago so i decided to write of his good work so that anyone in my former situation can also contact him for help. Once again Dr okun of okuntemple@gmail.com is a wonderful spell caster and he is the answer to your relationship problems. He can be of great help and to you and I will never stop publishing his good works cause i know that you need his help his emergency number is +2347060595685

Frank Marian Frank Marian

Great Thanks to Dr Ofemo for helping me when i needed help. My name is frank Marian from USA I never believe in love spells until I experience Dr. DR Ofemo temple, and after he cast a love spell for me my Ex called me to apologize for the pain that she has caused me and till today we are living a happy family, if you need a right place to solve your problems contact DR Ofemospelltemple@gmail.com is the right choice. he is a great man that have been casting spells with years of experience, he cast spells for different purposes like: (1)If you want your ex back. (2) if you always have bad dreams. (3)You want to be promoted in your office. (4)You want women/ men to run after you. (5)If you want a child. (6)[You want to be rich. (7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever. (8)If you need financial assistance. (9)Herbal care Contact him today on: drofemospelltemple@gmail.com

Trucker Stacey

My name is tucker stacey.This is a very joyful day of my life because of the help Dr.Trust has rendered to me by helping me get my ex husband back with his magic and love spell. i was married for 6 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Trust email on the internet on how he help so many people to get thier ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good. He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really enjoying my marriage, what a great celebration. i will keep on testifying on the internet because Dr.Trust is truly a real spell caster. DO YOU NEED HELP THEN CONTACT DOCTOR TRUST NOW VIA EMAIL: Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or call +2348156885231 or ultimatespellcast@gmail.com. He is the only answer to your problem and make you feel happy in your relationship

Trucker Stacey

My name is tucker stacey.This is a very joyful day of my life because of the help Dr.Trust has rendered to me by helping me get my ex husband back with his magic and love spell. i was married for 6 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Trust email on the internet on how he help so many people to get thier ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good. He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really enjoying my marriage, what a great celebration. i will keep on testifying on the internet because Dr.Trust is truly a real spell caster. DO YOU NEED HELP THEN CONTACT DOCTOR TRUST NOW VIA EMAIL: Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or call +2348156885231 or ultimatespellcast@gmail.com. He is the only answer to your problem and make you feel happy in your relationship.

Melissa Lopez Melissa Lopez

My Name is melissa lopez i have a testimony to say; I have been married for five years without any child, nor pregnancy and so i became very sad and lost hope in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant and this really make life so hard for me and this made my husband to turn away from me. My sister in-law told me about DR EKPEN from the Internet, how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explained to him. He told me not to worry and that everything we soon be okay. He cast a spell and it was a miracle, to my greatest surprise three days later my husband came back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few months later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (girls) we are now a happy family. Thanks to DR EKPEN for saving my relationship and for also helping others too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact DR EKPEN for your solution now EMAIL him at ( ekpenlovetemple@gmail.com) for any help you want him to do for you. Thank you Great DR. once again and may your gods reward you for your good deeds. ekpenlovetemple@gmail.com

GRACE

I have always wanted to be able to not live paycheck to paycheck or have any debt. I worked in accounting for about 20 years and was barely able to make ends meet. It seemed like any time I moved up in the company and received a raise, my living expenses would go up significantly and I was never able to get ahead. lottery spells. Then one day my best friend told me the truth about what he did when his wife left him. He had a love spell cast and she stopped the divorce proceedings and they got back together. When he told me this I asked who he used and he gave me their email address which is: illehspell@yahoo.com OR illehspell@gmail.com and I immediately contacted them for help. I saw that they offered different kinds of money spells to help win the lottery. I was immediately intrigued. I have always felt like I was going to win the lottery someday. I had the jackpot lottery spell cast and awaited my win. I was told to play the lottery each week and I did what I was told. I played the lottery each week anyways, so it did not change anything. Within about two weeks it happened. I won $100,000!! I could not believe it! It was not enough money to retire right away, but I invested it well and it has allowed me to go down to part time work and will help me retire much earlier. I am eternally grateful for finding their email.

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