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Dads' and kids' relationship

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Mum Knows Best

  1. To help my son sleep in the day, I used to put him in a hammock hung from the door frame. The gentle swinging motion would help him to sleep and he'd often stay asleep for three hours. Charlotte Highman, 33, mum to Harry, 15 months
  2. When I'm helping my son to read a new book from school, I write a list of the words he struggles on.  We go through the list separately and tick off every word he gets right. He is then able to relate the word to the book and by the following week he reads the words perfectly.
  3. My breastfeeding tip is to always keep your back straight by either sitting in a straight-backed chair if you've got one, otherwise by supporting it with cushions.
    Louise Drysdale, 28, mum to Rosie, Berks
  4. Fancy a weekend lie in? Now that my kids are old enough to tell the time, I tell them they'll get a prize if they manage to stay in bed until the clock says seven. While they're asleep, I change the clock to run an hour slow. A bit naughty, but it's worth it!
    Ellie Jones, Newcastle. Tip from Woman Magazine
  5. When it's all going pear shaped, rebalance yourself with a move that's a bit yoga-ish. Sit comfortably; inhale for the count of 3, exhale for a count of 6, until you feel calm. You'll find you can't breathe and count and hold on to stressful thoughts!
    Woman Magazine
  6. Re-use the small string bags that come with washing tablets. They're ideal for storing hair bobbles, nail varnish and make-up. They're also good for children's small toys like marbles and conkers.
    Amanda Evans, North Yorkshire. Tip from Woman's Weekly
  7. Finding baby clothes difficult to iron? Use a travel iron, so much easier to get those teeny weeny clothes looking smart.
  8. I thought I'd love breastfeeding, but I dreaded feeds. I'm much happier since I stopped. I'll have another go with my next baby, but I won't beat myself up if I still don't like it.
    By Annabel Harper, 26, mum to Rebecca, 22 months
  9. I had nowhere to keep my daughter's sand-pit toys so I washed out my old kitchen bin and keep the toys in there. If it rains, I put the lid on to keep the toys dry
    Kim, via email
  10. Don't waste money buying expensive pet blankets and bedding from pet shops. Baby blankets and bedding items from charity shops serve the purpose equally well and cost a lot less.
    Hilary Burfoot, Berkshire. Tip from Woman's Weekly
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It's often assumed that a mum's bond and relationship with her kids is the most important. But dads are just as crucial for children to grow up healthy and well and according to polls are just as skilled at parenting. So why is the father's role usually seen as coming second?

Research for the Fatherhood Institute discovered that almost 7 out of 10 mums believe that dad is just as good at looking after the kids as them, but found that dads spend on average 1 month less with their children every year.

The same research also discovered that around 7 in 10 men and women think that society values a father's relationship to their child less than a mother's. This is despite evidence that links an absent father figure to youth crime and poor results at school.

We talked to some parenting experts to get their advice on why dads are so important and find out exactly what a dad can do to make sure he has a great relationship with his kids.

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