My baby will only sleep sitting up. Every time I put him/her in the cot they wake up and start crying again. How can I get them to sleep in their cot/moses basket?
Each time your little one wakes and starts to cry, pick him up and soothe until he is quiet. Put him back in his cot again before he falls asleep in your arms. Keep repeating until he eventually falls asleep lying down on the mattress. It will be hard work and could take up to 3 hours on the first night, but with perseverance he will start to sleep on the mattress for a good length of time.
My baby wakes really early in the morning. How can I get him/her to sleep longer/later?
Check that your baby really is waking too early. The "normal" range for a baby to wake up is between 6am and 8am. Getting up at 6am may be a bit early for many of us, but you may have to live with it for a bit until your baby gets older. If your baby is waking before 6am, try and leave him/her in the cot to as close to 6am as you can. This is particularly important if they're not crying as they may well surprise you and go back to sleep. If your baby is crying, then go in and soothe, but keep the lights off and the mood quiet until 6am and if your baby is on solid food, try not to feed milk until after 6am.
My baby likes to be rocked to sleep. How can I break this habit without upsetting them too much?
Rock your baby as normal, but put them down before they actually fall asleep. If they cry when they go on the mattress, pick them up and rock again. It will take some time, but eventually your baby will start to fall asleep on the mattress instead of in your arms. You can then start to reduce the length of the rocking sessions.
My baby won't nap during the day, or when she does it's only for 20 minutes. Most of my friends' babies sleep 3 hours a day!
Some babies need less daytime sleep than others, so if your baby is happy and content throughout the day, then I wouldn't worry about it. However, if your little one is cranky and obviously over-tired then they may have an issue with settling off to sleep. A good way to check is to look at bedtime. Do they go down awake with no crying and fall asleep on their own with you out of the room? If not, then work on that and the naps should happen a lot easier.
My baby keeps nodding off during the day, but won't sleep properly at night. How can I swap them around?
This is usually a problem for newborns who have not worked out the difference between night and day. Wake them every 3-4 hours to feed through the day (but not at night). Make sure that the room is light when they sleep during the day and dark at night. Take them out for plenty of fresh air through the day and attend activities in the local area. These actions combined should mean that they are awake more during the day and then will sleep better at night.
My baby loves his/her dummy. How can I get him/her to sleep without it?
Dummies can be useful up to around 4 months, but after that the disadvantages outweigh the advantages. If a baby falls asleep with the dummy in, then when they wake through the night (which all babies do as part of their natural sleep cycle) they look for it again and can't get back to sleep without it. There is also good scientific evidence that babies who use dummies experience more coughs, colds, chest infections, ear infections and stomach upsets than babies who don't. The best way to get rid of a dummy is to just ditch it. Most babies have forgotten about it in around 3 days.
Is feeding my baby back to sleep a bad thing?
Obviously very young babies need to feed through the night. However, if each time they fall asleep they do it on the breast or bottle, they lose the ability to fall asleep without milk which has implications when they get older and no longer need a night feed. If possible try and rouse your baby before you put them in bed, so that they then have to re-settle themselves to sleep.
My baby's nappy leaks at night because it gets so full. I don't want to change him/her in the night because it wakes him/her up. Is there any other solution?
If mums use a good quality nappy, like Pampers Baby Dry it should not be necessary to change the nappy all night because of the advanced liquid-holding technology built into the nappy. If it does leak, it maybe that mum is not using the right size. Babies come in all shapes and sizes which is why there is an overlap in the weight ranges on the Pampers products. If you are using a size 3, but your baby is also in the weight range for a size 4, consider trying that size. Mums can always visit Pampers.co.uk for more advice.
My baby rolls on to his/her front and gets stuck and screams until I go in as he/she doesn't know how to roll back yet. This has been going on for weeks. I'm exhausted. What can I do?
This is a frustrating time and most babies and parents go through it. Each time your baby gets stuck, swiftly turn them over without making too much contact and then leave the room again or go back to bed if they're still in with you. Repeat as many times as necessary until they go back to sleep. Through the day include lots of tummy time so that they can practice rolling back the other way. It is a phase and as long as you don't introduce any "props" such as feeding each time they get stuck or popping a dummy in, it will pass.
My baby gets its legs stuck in the cot, but I don't want to get a bumper because I'm scared he/she will suffocate. What can I do?
Each time your baby gets stuck, move him/her back to a comfortable position, quietly and in the dark. When they get older this will no longer be a problem because they will be able to adjust and fall back to sleep on their own. It could take a few weeks. If your baby also bangs his/her head when stuck and you're worried, there are now several products on the market which wrap each individual cot bar and so prevent any suffocation risk. This sort of bumper also can't be used as a leg-up to climb out of the cot!
Where to next?
- Baby sleep aids - from cot bumpers to soothers
- Baby sleep training guide
- The E.A.S.Y baby routine explained