The discussion was sparked after a concerned mother posted a question about her daughter's behaviour on Mumsnet, saying that 'over the past month we have seen an alarming switch to "manic and aggressive" with intrusive thoughts.'
The mum went on to explain that her daughter had begun 'fidgeting constantly, running everywhere, talking nonsense, not listening or trailing off in the middle of sentences and beginning a new conversation,' adding that the young girl had also been unable to sleep, started displaying 'impulsive behaviour' and had become verbally and physically aggressive.
She added that the intrusive thoughts often referred to 'private parts' - 'essentially the growing realisation that everyone has them, and that she wants to look at everyone's all the time. Or saying that she is "thinking about private parts" all the time.
'She's asking us constantly if we are going to "tell on her" for every little infraction and believes the police/school are going to get her if she does anything wrong.'
These changes, coupled with regular violent outbursts and finding joy in recent tragedies such as the fire in London, have driven the worried parent to wonder if she should seek professional help for her child.
Many commenters agreed that she was not being unreasonable to be anxious, with one writing: 'Is there any chance she could be being abused by someone? Not suggesting that this is the case, but she reminds me of my cousin who was being abused and threatened by a family member.'
Another agreed: 'Abuse is what sprung to mind for me too. For this behaviour to be so sudden suggests something has happened.'
Emily Cherry, Head of Participation at the NSPCC told The Independent: 'The way the parent describes their child's behaviour is a real cause for concern.
'Sudden, unexplained changes in the way children are acting can often be signs of abuse or bullying.
'Most children go through a phase, particularly in their early years, of becoming fixated on genitalia, and this can be a normal stage of development. But when that is combined with other really noticeable behaviour changes it can be an indication that some form of abuse has either happened or is happening.
'A particularly worrying sign is that the child is fearful of being told on to teachers and police. Abusers will use fear, shame and guilt to silence their victims and prevent them from speaking out.'
She also shared a list from the charity of signs that all parents should look out for if they are concerned about possible abuse, including:
In the case of the family in question, Emily suggests that they reach out to their GP and their child's school for support, although a referral to children's social services may also be necessary.
Any other parents who are worried about a sudden change in their child's behaviour can seek similar support, or call the NSPCC's counsellors on 0808 8005000.