Dealing with ectopic pregnancy loss

Eleanor Roberts, about 1 month

I had a ectopic pregnancy the begining of this august 09 which resulted in having my right tube removed it was a much wanted baby we knew the due date march 15th next yr i having been coping well and hav been put on anti depressants iam a depressive anyway but have been fighting it for years the baby brought me out of it i just want to know is there a chence i could have this asgain in my left tube i dont c point to life if i cant have children x eleanor

sarah, 5 months

Myself and my partner would love nothing more to be years ago i had my first ectopic kept my tube luckly, a year later i had another ectopic and had to have my left tube removed. i would like to know if theres any hope of me having a natural pregnncy as myself and my partner would love nothing more than to be parents. i have been told that i can have ivf but i feel that its one hell of a road to walk down. i hope that my angels will see fit to give us our wishes and complete our dreams. to all the people out there that have suffered or are suffering from this awful sadness in your lifes . i give my love. you never get over it . you just learn to live with it an the pain.... you get used to that . to be a mummy and not have your child there to watch to teach and to love .... the pain wow.... but trust me you can live to see another day. i share my godaughter such a pleasure

Gina, about 1 year

1 1/2 years ago I had an ectopic that resulted in the removal of my right fallopian tube. Just about a week and a half ago, I went into surgery for yet another ectopic, and I lost my right ovary this time. I have to wonder if it is even worth it to try to have another child... I cant go through this again. If I lose any more parts, I will be infertile. Both of these babies were very much wanted. My first wanted baby was a miscarriage, and then these two... I dont know what to do, or how to react. I'd be more shocked if I actually get to keep a pregnancy, ya know?

keya, about 1 year

Just one week ago today. I have to have emergency laparascopic surgery to remove an ectopic pregnancy as well as D&C to remove what was suspected to be a twin to the ectopic pregnancy. I am so lost and confused, I have no way to vent my emotions as I have 3 other children who depend solely on me( Hubby just got deployed again) On top of all the different emotions, caring for 3 children and dealing with a painful and scary lost, I am doing it all along. Just my luck Hubby got deployed a DAY before I was rushed to ER. I wish all of you ladies much peace and many blessings during this tough time. Anyone with sound advice or even words of encouragement, is greatly appreciated. My prayers are with you all. Baby Dust to each of you

Antonia Williams, about 1 year

Last year I had a ectopic pregnancy, I was rushed to emergency surgery. I lost one right fallipin tube, my daughter and my father in law. All in one day It has been so hard to heal from this, I have good days and bad. I ask myself why all of the time. Well, I'm trying again and I just pray all goes well, So I to know what you women out there is going through, If anybody have any suggestions, " Please let me Know." I will gladly appreciate everything. God Bless and much prosperity to all from the heart.

lashay currie, about 1 year

I had an ectopic pregnancy last year and I just turned 19. That was the worst pain I have ever experienced in my life. THe doctor told me that if I didnt come to the hospital that dat I could have died. Tis sis to my uborn child...I m sorry that I couldnt have you. THis topic gets so stressful and It was nice to read other people ho experiece the same thing I did. We all need to support eace other as youndg women. Hopefully after college, I will have an army of children.....

elizabeth olubunmi adeoye, about 1 year

want to know my chances of pregnancy after a ectopic pregnancy

Elizabeth Evans, about 1 year

I had an ectopic pregnancy at the age of 19 ... It was a heartbreaking experience as I desperately wanted children. I had a pain on my right hand side and went to the doctors to be told that I was having a suspected ectopic. I was not even aware at this point that I was pregnant so it was a double shock. I was rushed to hospital and operated on the next day. I had my right tube removed and spent the next week in hospital recovering. I suffered severly from depression and went to the doctor where they prescribed me anti-depresents. They made me worse, so I took myself off them. I sourced afree service that provides help with abortions and asked if I could see someone about my problem. This was the best thing I did because I felt so much better after talking to someone about my issues ... How come this happened to me? ... Why did this happen to me? ... What's wrong with me for this to happen? Nearly three years on I'm fine. I have subsequently have had 2 miscarriages since but I know that deep down I will be a mum one day and I just have to be patient. To all you people out there who think it's the end of the world, it does get better over time. You'll never heal fully from the loss, but you will learn to accept the fact. I do feel for you all and wish you all the luck in the world for future pregnancies. Lots of love, Liz xxx

Lindsey, about 1 year

I had an ectopic pregnancy in october 2006 and had to have my right tube removed too. I never thought I would get pregnant again but we were using condms anyway. We decided to not use anything once and I am now 7 weeks pregnant! Thats with only one tube so there is hope!

Lainey, about 1 year

Marie Do not worry, honestly, there is hope. This was just a mis-hap, and doesnt mean it will happen again. xx

Lainey, about 1 year

Hi I had an ectopic pregnancy 7 years ago and had to have my fallopian tube removed. For years i thought i would never have any children again and that was my only chance, yet i have just recently found out i am pregnant again. I will be seeing a gyneacologist next week to see if everything is in order! The good thing is, i can remember the aches and pains i had, which were a symptom, and so far so good, ive not had anything. I am 8 weeks pregnant. So everyone who has has an ectopic or miscarriage - there really is hope and a future out there! Good luck and God bless. xx

marie yakob, about 1 year

i have 5 children and was pregnant with my 6th but when i went for my scan on the 7th of nov this year they told me that my baby had dieed i was 17 weeks pregnant.we found out that i had a girl she is being cremeted tomorrow the 5th of dec.we are now just waiting for the post mortam results it broke my heart because we dont understand why this baby died as she was my no 6.i am scared now to try for another one in case it happens agaim. from marie liverpool.