Under the microscope: Dementia - Part 2

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What should I do if I or a relative have these symptoms?

The first step is to see a doctor. They will assess you, which will involve a verbal and maybe a physical test. Sometimes brain scans are used to diagnose dementia too.

How do I cope with someone who has dementia?

It can be very distressing for people with dementia and their partners or carers. Suddenly the person you know and love has changed and they don't know themselves anymore. Sufferers of dementia often feel vulnerable and very worried about why their health is deteriorating. They need lots of reassurance and support so that they don't lose their confidence or become depressed.

Health
Someone with dementia may not notice or remember if they're in pain or are feeling unwell, so you need to ask them if they're feeling ok. It's also a good idea to look for any potential danger zones in their house or flat as there may be a dodgy step or corner that you can remember to avoid but they may not remember this. You also need to watch their general health - are they eating regularly? Make sure they have regular, balanced meals and are drinking enough.

Lifestyle
Are they doing enough exercise or just sitting in a chair watching TV all day? It's important for everyone, at any age to get out and about, even if it's just a walk to the end of the road. Are they getting out of the house and keeping in touch with friends and doing their regular activities? Routines, jobs and a social life are really important for people with dementia and will help to keep their brain active.

Getting dressed
You may find that you or your friend or relative struggles with getting dressed. Someone who is always very smart and has dementia may forget what they normally like to wear or feel confused about what to put on, or what is clean and what isn't. So it's important for their confidence and dignity that their usual style and appearance is maintained, to help them feel more like themselves.

Hygiene
Someone with dementia may forget to wash or that they need the toilet. Of course, this is a very sensitive issue and can be uncomfortable for the sufferer and the carer. Be tactful and sensitive.

Where can I go for help if I have dementia or if a relative has dementia?

Speak to your GP about being referred to a specialist and getting help from local support groups. It's also worth getting in touch with www.alzheimers.org.uk

- Read last week's Under the microscope: Blood pressure