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My husband and I have stopped regular sex because I just don't feel like it any more. Is there something wrong with me?

Dr Petra says

It's normal for women not to feel like sex sometimes. Common causes include:

• Tiredness
• Not being turned on
• Stress
• Health problems
• Relationship difficulties
• Lack of confidence
• Poor body image

You'll want sex more if you feel desired, sexy and supported. Not only will help with the housework and childcare make a huge difference, but tell your partner how (and when) you'd like them to show how they fancy you.

Try masturbation and fantasies (on your own or with a partner) and be brave and say what you'd like sexually.

If your situation is caused by a psychological or physical health problem speak to your GP, or a therapist for relationship difficulties. Making practical lifestyle changes usually does the trick, but if not help is at hand.

- Next: 'My partner suffers from premature ejaculation'

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By Dr Petra Boynton

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