I've started to suffer from terrible pain both during and after sex. Is this something serious?

Dr Petra says

Pain should never be ignored so make an appointment with your doctor to check you're okay. If you think your pain is due to dryness or a lack of arousal you can try using a lubricant, exploring fantasies, erotica, masturbation, using sex toys, and sharing what excites you with your partner.

Pain can be common in relationships where couples aren't getting on, in which case counselling could help - contact Relate for more information.

Alternatively, your pain may be due to:

1. Health problems such as cystitis or thrush that your pharmacist can treat.
2. Sexually transmitted infections can cause pain - find out where your nearest Genito Urinary Clinic is for tests and treatment at Condom Essential Wear
3. Conditions such as vulvodynia or vaginismus can also cause pain and distress and need professional help.

- Next problem: 'We never want sex at the same time'

More help and advice

- Your relationships problems answered
- More in-depth info on STIs
- British Association of Sex and Relationship Therapy
- Sexual Dysfunction Association
- Women's Health provide support and information on common problems

By Dr Petra Boynton

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