Sarah's top 3 climax tips

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1. Think outside of the box

When pleasuring yourself, don't go straight for your clitoris, or whatever body part that takes you to orgasm most quickly. Try to build up to climax and tease yourself. You will find hidden sweet spots along the way.

2. Think like Elvis...

Rock your pelvis. Moving your hips back and forth can help trigger orgasm, so always make sure you're active whether you're making out with your man, or going solo.

3. Clench and release

In its basic form, orgasm is simply the release of muscular tension. Help build muscular tension by clenching and releasing the muscles in your pelvis, thighs, butt and stomach during sex. This will increase the pleasure and intensity of the release when it finally comes.

Sarah Hedley is the author of Sex by Numbers (Piatkus) and the editor of Scarlet Magazine

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claire, 13 days

A good tip that i found by accident was pleasure yourself and let yourself have one orgasm then immediatley jump on top of him and get the second orgasm through penatration, its was amazing just hit the spot just right,

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syed arifuddin, 4 months

i need to ask about the position of sex to bave a baby boy.plz help.

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Rachael , 5 months

I too can orgasm solo but not with penetrative sex, I find I get too distracted ,rather intercourse than clit stimulation(sometimes its hard to do both) and also get that gspot arousal without going over edge(posssibly worried about the peeing sensation) help!!

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Ash-hole, 9 months

I've tried all the sex tips i've found/heard. i still cant achieve an orgasm from another person. it even takes me a while. sex feels so good. i enjoy it. i get to that edge and ride it. i cant fall off. i simply cant orgasm. im not nervous, im inlove with my bf, he has good size and experience. he's great in bed. its me. could it be a medical problem with my vagina? or what? we're trying new things but nothing seems to work

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jim, 11 months

nice and helpful but will be good for us beginners if illustrated with more pictures and photos on each technique..i love the tips on giving more orgasm to my female partner more interesting

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Tracey, about 1 year

How do I ask a question about a sex position I didn't see illustrated? This is a good site for good to knows,I enjoyed it very much for my first visit.

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