My husband died of cancer five years ago and it took me a long time to get back into the world of dating.
Eventually, my daughter suggested I try out online dating and she helped me create a profile and soon the requests from men came flooding in.
A couple of the men really stood out and I arranged to see them separately a week apart.
They were both so kind and funny that I couldn't bear to let either of them down, so I've begun seeing them both regularly and neither of them knows about the other.
I suppose I should make up my mind which one to choose, but I'm having so much fun that I just can't at the moment...'
J, 55, Lancashire
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