Roger, 10 days [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

Buy a rampant rabbit & D.I.Y. !

h11, about 1 month [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

im 19 and have slept with 5 people, only one of which was a one night stand. My cousin is a year younger and has slept with over 50 - it just depends on what your like and what your attitude is towards sex. I dont see it as a priority whereas someone like my cousin does. I think that people are being nice and encouraging for you to enjoy yourself while your young but if you are writing into, what is ultimately a problem page, then you are obviously not happy with the way things are and want help to do something about it. I dont think your addicted to sex, i think your addicted to the attention you get from guys when having sex with them. But, although image is an important factor in many relationships, a good personality will go alot further than a few hours! I dont know why you cant just go out with guys instead of sleeping with them, because remember that when your looks go your personality will be all you have left! I met my boyfriend of three years and we had sex the first time we met, but fortunately he didnt boot me out afterwards, and wer still together. I think you should start to concentrate on getting attention because of who you are and not only what you can do for someone else - guys are taking advantage of your vulnerability and your letting them! Concentrate on your friends aswell - guys arent that good and friends dont leave once theyv taken what they can. I hope this advice helps and sorry its a bit long! x

rc, 2 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

ive been there 2 hun! im 17 n finaly settled afta bou 170!im happy wit him n preg n cant w8 2 get on wit my life i no it hard but i got thru it u jus need will power.dnt even think your a slag n dnt listen 2 people who say that your just veri indesicive who u want!keep tryin youll soon find a guy 2 make u happy and settle!xxx

Mags, 3 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

First off. You need to get checked for STDS. It's ovbious to me that your craving love!! but by sleeping with lots of different men isnt helping your reputation, what if someone nice comes along and finds out what your really like? they will run a mile. You should think about going into rehab..your probably addicted to sex...Some people go thru that.

keith w, 3 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

You like having sex. So what. Find a boyfriend who likes having sex as much as you with different people and join as many swinger groups as you can find. You won't be cheating, your relationship will last and remain hot, and...well that'll answer your conflict...

Nicola, 5 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

Well, to me sleeping with guys is real person, i respect myself, im young and i dont want to have slept with 10men by the time im 18. but the choice is yours. if your not ready to settle down and to carry on doing your thing, u might as wel do it, just when you do finally meet that someone... id say take of 50% of the men you slept with. if he does ask.

Charmne, 5 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

i thinkit's great that you areliving freely and that while your young, But your going to have to learn soonthat this will have to stop or you may get a nmae for yourself which im sure you don't want, And as you said you could catch something or YOU could get hurt. You know you should think about the man aswell,You could possible hurt him too! Hope you solve your problem :)x

????, 5 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

hiiya not being funny but we all do things we sumtime later regret. but think about it theres nothing wrong with what your doin your putting yourself first and doin what you want i think we should all take the time to put ourselves first. youll settle down when your ready. if your partner was the right man for you you wouldnt feel the need to cheat so my advice is carry on doin what you want and enjoy yourself while your young!!! xxx

Dani, 5 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

Hi NC, first i just wanted to say i think some of these comments are a bit harsh... your young, single so why souldnt you have fun?? I understand where your coming from i have slept with over 40 men and i am only 17.. However the way i see it is.. i am always carfull.... i use protection and get checked out regularly for STI's. As long as you are not in danger of any harm and your carfull then all i can say is enjoy yourself. When the right person comes along, he will not care about a number. You will stop when your ready babe... enyoy yourself and you will know when enough is enough. x x x

H, 5 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

First off Im going to say good on yah for having fun while your still young, but this fun has got to stop somewhere, whether its with you catching something serious like HIV or meeting the man of your dreams that does everything for you, but think of what your doing for yourself. You can't seriously think people dont know what your doing and sooner or later your going to be branded the "Sket that I go to because shes easy". To be honest love your giving young women a bad name! If you know what your doing is bad then stop get help if you have to, but if you wanna be the girl that gets called a slut behind her back then carry on. Its your reputation on the line! & what man is going to want a women who has that reputation?

???, 6 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

Yeah im not a prude or anything but what. This sleeping around could cause you problems not only could you get a STI you could also get pregnant and you dont want a chlid that doesn't know their father. Im only 14 and even i know that you shouldnt sleep around and i havent even had sex yet. it may be fun but think about your heath you are only 24 and have your whole life to live. One day you will find someone and not cheat on him. not only could this cause tyou some problems but this could also cause your family problems. Do you really want to get the slut reputation and be the person that anybody who doesnt have that someone special would go to for sex? You owe changing your life to yourself. And if you feel the urge of sex think about somthing else that doesnt involve sex. Good Luck in the Future

caz, 6 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

its ok to have sex with lots people as long as you use condoms every time and no one is getting hurt,men have sex with lots of women and its laugh but i bet you get called all sorts well fairplay to you and you will now when you meet the right person and u will not want to cheat because he will be enough for you,i was like you for a long time but i meet the man of my dreams and we are getting married next year.Also maybe there is an under lying problem like you have been hurt before so you dont give them chance to hurt you cause ive still not let him in propley because there is always a chance he could hurt me and i would porobley go and start having one night stands agian.Hope i have been of some help good luck.

gemma, 6 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

I think that deep down you do this because you have low self esteem. Sleeping around might make you feel wanted for a while, but its a very dangerous game to play. You say that you know you need to stop this, so why cant you? Are you a sex addict or do you just feel that lonely that you feel you have to do this? You will get a really bad reputation by sleeping around along with god knows what diseases. Your being niave and putting yourself at risk of all sorts. Sort out your priorities and save yourself for that one special someone!

sadey, 6 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

at 24 you should have a bit more common sense and self-control. These men are going for you cos you've got EASY all over your forehead, they don't respect you or care about you. You should think twice about taking a guy home next time you're out, and think about what the repurcussions could be. A disease you can't get rid of and that will make you feel ashamed in the future? An unwanted baby who grows up without its dad, or maybe not even knowing who its dad is? Next time have some self-respect and think, "i'm not going to sleep with a guy until i've gotten to know him a bit better" just give him a number or arrange a date instead. You don't even know who you're taking home, they could be any sickos how would you know after a couple of hours in a club etc? Grow up and think about what you're doing with your life.

MRS H, 6 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

Do you have no self respect? I am all for two consenting adults having sex if that's what they want but you must just be having someone different every night!, these mean are using you for one thing, they have no repect for you! Have fun of course but is it necessary to drop your knickers for the first man who gives you a bit of attention! I can think of one word to sum you up LOOSE!

types, 7 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

i have slept wiv 80+ men before i meet my bf! im only 24 and been wiv my partener 3 years and have never cheated on him! live ya life! 100+ ITS ONLY A NUMBER! and 1 day u will meet some1 special!

Sapphire, 7 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

OhEmGee get over yourself! You're 24 and have plenty of time for a relationship! Have fun while you can. And having fun doesn't mean not being sensible, you can eff as many men as you like to have fun, but it shouldn't stop you taking proper precautions. If you don't feel like stopping, you don't want to stop. So don't! You'll be able to stop when you feel ready.

LJPoo, 7 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

Hi NC I dont believe anyone or anything can stop you apart from yourself. You have to decide what it is you want out of life. These men you are sleeping with do not respect you, horrible to say but its the truth. If you want along term loving relationship then you have to show yourself and believe that you are worty of that. Next time you are tempted into sleeping with a man you just met, give him your phone number and a wink. Good Luck and be happy x x x x

R, 7 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

hi nc, Its totally miserable trying to stop doing something and failing. I'm with Mrs O on this one. Only the love of Jesus can totally satisfy you, he promises 'I will never leave you or forsake you'. He has changed me from the inside out and my desires too. xxx

mrst, 7 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

i dont think you should feel bad.i ve a problem too,i think about other men having sex with me and have actually had sex with 4to5men since been married.i just love the way they touch me and do stuff to me(adult stuff)some were married but didnt care,but now i ve stopped cos i ve a child now.good luck in any decisions you make and decied when you want to cos once you stop there is no going back.

Mrs O------------------, 7 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

Hello Nc, How are you doing ? I SAW YOUR WRITE UP AND I REALLY FEEL FOR YOU. I WAS ONCE LIKE AND ALWAYS SCARED OF BEING A FAITHFUL WIFE BUT THANKS TO JESUS THAT AM HAPPILY MARRIED TODAY. NC,IF YOU REALLY WANT TO STOP SLEEPING AROUND THEN COME TO JESUS AND ACCEPT HIM S YOUR LORD AND PERSONAL SAVIOUR AND START SEEING YOUR BODY AS NOT YOURS BUT GOD'S OWN 1CORINT'6 VS15 -20. MY DEAR PLS READ THE ABOVE FOR MY SAKE AND PLS WRITE ME BACK AND ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT JESUS LOVES YOU VERY MUCH

daren, 7 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

you are the best, why you want to end all this if you feel good sex is fantastic you don2t finish first time end you want to start

dddppp, 7 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

I know how you feel, I am nearly 20 and have slept with nearly 45 men. It all started when I split up with my boyfreind of two years i felt i needed the comfort of someone else so i kept sleeping around but now i have started a relationship with someone and i have not cheated or looked at another lad like that. i would say you need to try an look for a good lad that will stand by you what ever thats what i have done an i think it works

dddppp, 7 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

I know how you feel, I am nearly 20 and have slept with nearly 45 men. It all started when I split up with my boyfreind of two years i felt i needed the comfort of someone else so i kept sleeping around but now i have started a relationship with someone and i have not cheated or looked at another lad like that. i would say you need to try an look for a good lad that will stand by you what ever thats what i have done an i think it works