You notice that your partner has been going out with his friends a lot more lately when he usually only sees them once every couple of weeks. What do you do?
a) He must be having an affair. You think of ways to spy on him and find out what he's really doing.
b) Maybe you have done something wrong and that's why he is going out so much. It's probably best not to say anything.
c) Why would you worry? It's quite nice having more time to yourself.
d) You don't give it two thoughts. He's probably out arranging something fun for you to both do together anyway.