You're a loyal girlfriend but you also have a lot going on in your life which means you don't spend as much time with you partner as you could. You like spending time with him but you're just as happy to have a glass of wine with your friends (and not check your phone for messages every twenty seconds!).
Make sure you let him in when you need to and don't struggle through big problems on your own. It's great to be strong but there's no shame in asking for a bit of advice or a helping hand once a while.