'I'm trying to get pregnant, but my husband doesn't know'
I'm recently married and desperately want a baby but my husband doesn't want a child yet. I know he doesn't really mean it, so I'm secretly trying to get pregnant anyway.
I'm convinced that when a little one comes along he'll change his mind so I've thought of a plan. We're using condoms but instead of just throwing them away, I've been keeping them, cutting a whole in the top and doing self insemination to get pregnant.
I'm not sure it can happen this way but fingers crossed!
Lucy*
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JANET, 2 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]
You must know what you are doing is wrong and deceitful, just think when your husband finds out what you have done I can guarantee he will leave you. Maybe bring the subject about children in a round about way and find out if he still feels the same as he did when you first talked about him not wanting children. Maybe he may have had a child before he met this lady with a previous partner and the baby may have died of an illness so maybe he feels that the same thing might happen again that could be one of the reasons why, but I am only guessing about this I might be wrong. I justhope for your sake that things do work out on the subject of having children, maybe he may change his mind so whatever your decision good luck for the future and take care of yourself LUCY*