Sarah, 20 days [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

I do not think you should tell your husband. Things will NEVER be the same between you if you both decided to stay together after telling him. He would not treat you the same, he could never trust you, and he would probably in his mind question EVERYTHING you do, and doubt EVERYTHING you say. If you truly love your husband and you are ready to commit to him, then talk to him about what you both can do to work on the marriage. Show him you love him, tell him you love him, and really work on things. Again, telling a man you cheated is a big big mistake. Take it from me!

panama, 24 days [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

wendy tell your husband whats going on be honest with your self,and respect your self good luck

Bill, 29 days [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

I agree with Keith. You're obviously much more highly sexed than your husband ( which isn't really surprising considering your age difference) - and let's face it, this isn't going to get any easier in the next ten years or so, as most men's sex dive begins to fade after they reach 50. maybe you should have discussed this before the pair of you wed.Then there's the difference of love and lust - which so many folk don't seem to understand. You don't love these guys you sleep with - and the feeling's probably mutual. If you look at it like that, and remain totally 'in charge' of the situation, then you'll be o.k. Keep getting your leg over as many men as you feel you need (in any way YOU choose - including with your webcam if that's sufficient for you!), keeping firmly in your mind that you are having them, and not the other way around. The love and devotion,care and companionship you reserve entirely for your husband - this was why you married him, and my guess is that it will stay that way until the pair of you reach old age and mellow together. The alternative will mean you'll get more and more bitter and frustrated as his libido diminishes and you'll either split or you'll stay out of 'duty' having 'made your bed' and end up hating him. At the end of the day it's really your choice, but one thing for sure, you're not going to lose your natural high sex drive just by becoming 'loyal' again! As for 'Jack' (above)... What planet is he on? Of COURSE that's not you in the pic! You wouldn't be so stupid to publish your own pic with such a confession - just in case he and/or one of your friends/relatives etc saw it on the site.(The other possibility of course is that the whole thing - pic and confession is just 'fiction' - none of us will ever know!) Anyway, at least it's provoked a variety of opinions, including mine, so hope you get something out of it all if you really are 'genuine', and send you my best wishes

Susan, 30 days [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

Just come clean to your husband about what you've done. Explain to him how much you do love him and why you did what youd did. I'm sure if he loves you he will understand and see where you're coming from. If he doesn't, then it's his loss and he doesn't deserve you anyway.

J, about 1 month [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

I know how you feel and I know it is hard to stop because we are all selfish people. If you know very well that your husband loves you very much and you are very sure you REALLY love your husband, then perhaps you should just stop and ponder about what kind of pain are you inflicting on him when you slept with these men? what would you do if your husband did what you did to you? Don't do things you will regret.

Tyler, about 1 month [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

I think people being unfaithful to their lovers is wrong! Im not going to judge you, but you need to stop this as you already know. your only 27 this is a yong age and you still have your life to live. your not satified with your husband you need attension, and a sex life, it sound like you dont get this from your husband, cheating on him makes you feel guilty but you enjoy it at the same time, the attension and sex. you need to think about this, do you want to carry on been unfaithful? or do you want to sit down with your husband n talk about whats causing you to be unfaithful to him? or maybe you should finish it and live your life you may love him but your hurting him and yourself by cheating, he doesnt deserve this from you, and you dont deserve been unhappy so the best thing is to find some one your own age who enjoys sex and going out and living life. then maybe you will be happy and satisfied. also showing your body off on webcam is showing you dont respect yourself let them no you before you flaunt your stuff to strangers.GOOD LUCK!

keith w, about 1 month [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

You're 27, your man is 50. Your young, hot, horny and love to get pounded. It sounds so cheap but that's what it is. But don't feel bad, it's is your twenties and you'll never get them back. When your out of town, and online you get to be the freak that you always have been and there is nothing wrong with that other than you denying yourself the opportunity to be yourself. Anyone can love anyone, but you need to love yourself and yourself is telling you it is time to get laid as much as possible..We are in the age of the internet and girls gone wild, so one night stands with reunited friends, and online hook-ups is common for those in thier young thirties down. Be true to yourself.

Hazel, about 1 month [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

I think what you've done to your husband is horrible! He is t work earning money and your selfishly sleeping with other guys. You should explain to him that you miss him when he is not there and maybe discuss him getting a day job. If you cant talk to him you may as well not be with him - what is the point!

Jack, about 1 month [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

Wendy? WENDY IS THAT YOU? Oh, god, Wendy.... WHYYYY!!

jodey, 3 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

if you want to sleep around behind your husbands back tell him he isnt giving you enough attention and leavw him its not right to stay if you want to have sex with other men . !

toya, 3 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

you really need to analyze yourself-get a life. i dont think that you are happy or appreaciate what you have. having sex with married man is selfish and disgusting - remember whatever goes around comes around! all the time you have spent with these other men, have you ever thought about what your husband is up to. talk to sombody but most imortantly learn from your mistakes and stop making them. try to take life more seriously - then perhaps you'll stop your ways

fizz, 3 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

why oh why did you get married, are marriage vows worth nothing?

Ally, 3 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

Wendy, Its good that you know that you have to stop it. But just think if you really loved your husband would you be doing this? I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it some way you have to confess you can't keep going on like this. I think that if you don't love him you should leave him and have a fresh new start with your life. If you do have an relationship with this guy on the Internet end it with him and start fresh just like that. Hun I know this is really hard but you have to do something if its talking to your husband he might help you get over it and be a better husband if he really cares. If not just leave him even if its hard.

stephanie, 4 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

wendy, i am also 27 and have been married for 5 years. i think that that you may just be craving some companionship and attention that your husband is not giving you. it is impossible for one peson to meet all of our needs as human beings. instead of spending the day on the computer, try making some new friends that can help fill that need for human contact. and lastly, if you find it so difficult to stay faithful to your husband, he may not be the right person for you. if you can't even talk to him about being dissatisfied with your relationship, then maybe the 2 of you just weren't meant to be together. Or maybe you are not ready for a committed relationship and should go back to dating. Because if you truly loved him then you would not be doing things behind his back that would break his heart. Sometimes the most loving thing is to let someone go.