We don't have any children and he works nights so it's hard sometimes and as a result, I've slept with two other men. One is a bloke I met on the internet who lives in the next town along from me. We've only done it once because he's married with a kid.
The second time happened when I went to London to visit my family. I met up with an old friend who I haven't seen in years and we ended up having sex. I enjoyed the sex both times but now I feel really guilty.
I do love my husband and I know he loves me but he's not an affectionate person. I'm always on the computer and recently I met another bloke who I've got quite friendly with. We've had sex via the web-cam and are chatting a lot.
I know I'm bad and it's got to stop but I just can't and there's no way I could talk to my husband about it.
Please help - I don't know what to do.
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