Cheating: Technology and not talking

12 signs he's cheating | How to tell if he's having an affair | Phones and emails

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3. Technology changes

His behaviour: Now that technology makes it easier to contact people, this not only means that it's easier to have an affair, but there are also more places to be caught out. You may discover that your man has an email account you never knew about, or perhaps he has two phones and you only know one number.
Another common sign is when he starts taking calls and walking out of the room, often telling you it's work, and gets defensive when you get near his phone.

The innocent explanation: His boss has asked him to be on call when he's at home, given him a work phone and your partner doesn't want to interrupt whatever you're doing.
The guilty reason: His mistress is sending him naughty texts or emails while you're at home and he's trying to cover them up. We're not suggesting you actually snoop because if there is nothing going on then it could you look bad and in the wrong - just be aware.

4. You don't talk any more

His behaviour: This is almost the opposite of him being over-interested in you. Maybe he's stopped being interested in what you got up to during the day, or he no longer says 'I love you' or doesn't even want to kiss or hug you any more.

The innocent explanation: Could he be stressed or maybe even suffering from depression? This can often explain mood swings or disinterest and possibly he won't realise he's suffering.
The guilty reason: If he starts becoming less interested in finding out what you've done during the day and how you're feeling, then it's often an indication that he's getting his emotional fix elsewhere. When kissing stops in a relationship, it's often seen as a big warning sign.