Martin Reiser, 17 days [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

First, why on earth should you feel guilty? Of what? It is natural and o.k. to have sex so what is the matter. And what good would come out to tell him? NOTHING but problems for more people. If you feel its wrong, don't do it again -- that's all. You make a melodrama of nothing :-)

Ben, 3 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

Do NOT listen to RB or Kit. Cheating is wrong period. If you can't be a trust worthy partner, then what is the point of being together if you just want something different, you people are probably making things worse for her. Haileigh, I'm not condoning cheating in anyway, but honestly, its up to you to decide whether or not too tell him. It all depends on the guy, some are forgiving, some are not. I'm forgiving, but too me, cheating is pretty close to being an unforgivable sin... but thats just me . The longer you keep it from him, the more it is going to her hurt him AND you. If you keep it bottled up at the back of your mind for your whole life, its going to drive you insane, given, yes, there will be times that you will forget about it, but its very easy to be reminded of something that you honestly don't want to remember. And keeping it from him for a long time, and suddenly telling him is going to make it hard for him to trust you. Because the longer you keep it from him, the less he is going to feel he can trust you. The chances of cheating twice in a week are a lot less then for say... a few years. Then hes going to wonder if you've done anything else, and it could ultimately cause a bigger problem then if you keep it bottled up. I hope this helps, and I wish the best for you two.

RB, 3 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

I wouldn't worry about it, we all make mistakes, just forget about it, I'm sure it was fun when it happened, just move on and concentrate on having a happy future with your man, you only live once, if we can't have a little adventure once, then what the hell is the point! I don't condone cheating all the time, but I think sometimes we just need a little naughtiness outside our normal relationships, it doesn't mean you love your man less, sometimes it makes you realize just what you have at home, you clearly love your bf, so just move on and don't do it again!

Tyler, 3 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

People Make Mistakes, Everyone knows this. you cant change the past, but i personally think you should tell your boyfriend, he needs to know! It may course problems but if he loves you he will be able to forgive you, and you after resure him over and over that you will never be unfaithful again. i know you dont want to hurt your boyfriend, but your hurting yourself and it will hurt him more knowing your keeping stuff from him. if you love him you waint want to lie to him. If you keep this to yourself you will feel guilty and hurt and May course arguments, you will become paranoid because you waint be able to trust him and you could start to think if you have done it to him and he asnt found out then he could be or has cheated on you, you need to sit down with him and talk about this. realtionships never work if theirs no trust and lies, and you would'nt want something like this to be kept from you. think about your relationship because you have a son with him and thats who you really need to think about. Good Luck and take care..x

nik, 3 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

i think you should tell him, it will only make it worse the longer you leave it, my ex partner cheated on me a few times and on the occasions it took longer to find out it hurt more, i dont know why i stayed with her but i did, i suppose it was fools love but if you dont tell him you will never know how he will take it, you have to risk being hurt to get to the truth about why you cheated in the first place

kit, 4 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

i cheated on my ex husband and when he found out he was very angry but he had hurt me 1st so i paid him back but it ruined our marriage. men cannot forgive and forget about this at all. they may say that they have but deep down it will always be at the back of their mind. telling your boyfriend would only break your relationship so am afraid you will have to live with this til the day you die.

KC, 5 months [Offensive? Unsuitable? Report this comment.]

people always make mistakes as u know, and if u tell ur bf u cheated on him he would be seriously hurt i think, and mayb it wud be difficult for him to forgive u. if it was the other way round and my bf cheated on me i wud forgive him cuz i love him sooo much that i wud never cheat on him. soo mayb u should take this tough decision and tell him the truth after all u wud want that he tells u the truth also. either ways good luck and take care.