Sexplanations: 'Where's my G-spot?'

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Every week we partner with our sister magazine, Woman, to bring you expert sexual health advice from Christine Webber, a qualified psychotherapist with her own Harley Street practice.

The problem

My husband has read a lot in the papers about the G-spot and he's keen to find mine. I've never been sure what it is. He thinks that rubbing it will make me have much stronger orgasms. He loves it when I'm very turned on. So how do we find it, and is it worth it?

The solution

Yes, there's been a lot of talk about the G-spot recently because an Italian scientist has been trying to find out if it really exists. He discovered that some women have thickened tissue inside the front wall of the vagina, and some don't.' Interestingly, the ones that have it claimed to be able to have 'vaginal orgasms'.

So it would seem that some of us have a special area inside us - the G-spot - that's an extra source of pleasure.

My view is that if some of us have this inner zone, that's terrific. But don't forget, the biggest area of arousal for any woman is her brain! It's what she's thinking about that really turns her on.

But you could have fun looking for your G-spot. Lie flat on your back and relax. Get your husband to slip his index finger inside you with his palm upwards. Next, ask him to crook his finger, as if beckoning to you. The area where his fingertip touches is the alleged G-spot area.

If he rubs that zone, you may experience some unusual and thrilling feelings. You may also feel an urgent need to pee! You can buy a special vibrator with a bend in it, so that it will go 'round the corner' and touch your G-spot. If you like this area being touched, you may want to see if your man can bring you to orgasm by stimulating you there, by hand or with a vibrator.

You can also try lots of sexual positions to see if you can find one where he'll hit the spot.

But what suits one woman can be a turn-off for the next. Complex lot, aren't we!

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