Oral sex for the woman: Direct him
Lick his hand
Most men don't know the best way to use their tongue on you, so why not show him? Get hold of his hand and use your own tongue on his palm.
He'll probably be surprised to see you use the flat of your tongue rather than the tip, which most men use and also how slowly you move it.
Direct him
If he's in a position to be able to hear you, then make sure you tell your man what you want. Use clear, simple instructions like, 'slower', 'harder', 'faster'.
Remember, though, he's likely to not be able to hear you very well, so the way your body moves is even more important. Grind into him if you want to feel him harder or move away if it's happening too quickly or is too rough.
Flick him the V
If he's not really licking you in the right place, make a V sign with your fingers and show him where he should be putting his tongue. Position your fingers and get him to lick between them.





