What if you don't like giving oral sex
You might not like it but it's not fair to expect him to go down on you, if you don't return the favour once in a while.
Reason: He smells
If this is a reason for not doing it, why not suggest taking a shower together first and then wash him before you get down to it.
Reason: I gag
This is all about control - and you need to have it. By using either of the positions we suggested earlier you should be able to stop him thrusting so hard.
If he tries to hold the back of your head and push you, stop immediately and tell him not to do it. That should knock that one on the head, as it were.
Reason: I don't want to swallow
Well don't! If it really does turn you off, just make sure you take your mouth away just before he has an orgasm (and it should be easy to tell when that's going to happen) and finish him off with your hand.
You could try swallowing once to see what it's like. Allow it all to collect at the back of your throat and then swallow in one go - it's only about a teaspoon's worth. It might not taste as bad as you thought.
More help and advice
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- Everything you want to know about orgasms
By Rob Mansfield
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