Is he good in bed? How he kisses

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A man kissing a woman
The kiss is basically the first openly sexual act most people are likely to take part in. 'Basically, it's a warm-up for the real thing,' says Judi James. 'Put quite simply the way you kiss imitates how you have sex. It's an act of penetration.'

So according to Judi, these are the signs we should be looking out for:
Accuracy: French kissing is kind of advertising what you'd be like in bed, so putting a tongue in the right place is pretty crucial.
Confidence: You want a man to take the lead, but without being too bossy.
Sound effects: We're talking about pleasant murmurs of enjoyment here, rather than squeals of delight, obviously.
Clashing teeth: A big no-no. No matter how nervous a man is, this is just a sign of bad sexual co-ordination.

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Rebeca Kasak

Why not try wet kisses?..Wet kisses are extremely passionate, but there’s a thin line between passion and drool. While good kisses are a turn on, drooling kisses are a big turn off.

The Rogue

Great stuff here! I'm not sure if women need to know what to look for--I think a gal knows if the guy is attractive to her or not. But this is valuable info for a man who might be wondering why he's always a friend, never a lover. We guys don't always realize that our appearance and behaviors that are, on the surface, non-sexual still send signals to women about our sexual prowess (or lack thereof).

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