So according to Judi, these are the signs we should be looking out for:
Accuracy: French kissing is kind of advertising what you'd be like in bed, so putting a tongue in the right place is pretty crucial.
Confidence: You want a man to take the lead, but without being too bossy.
Sound effects: We're talking about pleasant murmurs of enjoyment here, rather than squeals of delight, obviously.
Clashing teeth: A big no-no. No matter how nervous a man is, this is just a sign of bad sexual co-ordination.
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