'Help, I'm obsessed with sex!'

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Hello, my name's Beka. I'm 18 years old and I am sex-obsessed.

I had my first proper boyfriend when I was 15. We were together for 6 months. Whenever we got the chance we had sex - anytime, anywhere.

When we broke up, the thing that affected me the most was the fact that I wasn't having sex.

Not long after we split, his twin brother started flirting with me. I was so upset that only 2 weeks after breaking up with my boyfriend, I found myself having sex with his twin!

This carried on for about a month until he decided he wasn't interested any more. I then found myself begging him for sex. It wasn't long before we were at it again - he's as sex-mad as I am. We had sex at work - just the thought getting caught really turned me on.

It's all over but he's told everyone about it. The problem now is, I've fallen in love with him.

The fact that I'm not having sex is also driving me crazy! I don't know what to do.

What do you think about Beka's confession? What should she do? Have your say in the Comments section below.

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Come and have sex with me my name is richard


You are 18. The problem is, you're not doing it right. You only want it more because you're not getting satisfied. My advise is find a guy that can actually do it for you. Being sex mad is not a bad thing, just as long as you don't do it with a lot of guys and play with their emotions. Or masturbate. No one knows you like you.


I lost my virginity 2 months ago with a person I was sure is in love with me (I'm 19 by the way). We are still together, so 3 months in relationship. Since my first time we make love 2-3 times per day, sometimes 4, some days we don't have it at all and it drives me crazy, I just start to think about sex, cannot focus. But I always know, that if I want sex and I do have time - he is always there, willing to please me. So, get a permanent partner (leave that dude to masturbate) and have a happy life. You don't have any problems about sexual activity, have as much sex as you want and be happy. And for now just leave that guy and if you can't find another love - just take up one night adventures. Have you tried masturbation? Forget about fingers, get a vibrator and play with it as much as you want. Sometimes it pleases better than any man in the world.


Honestly, I am in love with having sex. It feels amazing! But if you can't get enough of it then i would consider using toys or just having sex with your boyfriend all day long to get rid of the urge.


The feeling of wanna have sex 24/7? Lol, welcome to the world of men


i know the feeling i want sex 247 i cant help it


and u never got prgnant cool


Please get in touch. Im making a radio doc about office relationships and Id love to hear your story. Its for a national radio station. Cheers


This is the difficulty when people start having sex at an early age. I am 43 now and I got married at the age of 35. It is true that I have had some brief encounters of sex with some women but then I was never addicted as it was not love but pure physical requirement. I could make the difference as I was matured when I had my first sex at the age of 22. Now beca should seriously concentrate on something else than sex. Better she should join some self-help group and should not be alone. If she feels like having sex then let her use vibrators. At least this will save her from incurable diseases like aids and other stds which a person might get due to sleeping with multiple partners


Sex toys are always a good option. I was in a similar situation where I was single for over a year and deprived. Using toys is a good way to get yourself off without anybody knowing and without having many 'short-run' partners. I would suggest a good vibrator because they're good for penetration as well as clitoral stimulation.

Obinna Ekwom

The four way test: 1.Is it the TRUTH? 2.Is it FAIR to all concerned? 3.Will it build GOODWILL and BETTER FRIENDSHIPS? 4.Will it be BENEFICIAL to all concerned? Every problem has a solution, you have done the right thing by opening up. Be bold enough to seek therapy. Seek God and His kingdom and everything would be added unto you. I am sure He'll pull you through this and many more. Remain blessed.


i know exactly how you feel. I seriously was addicted to sex! omg! it sucked so bad exspecialy because when i found the one i loved and he would leave me i would crave sex and so i would cheat on him! ahhh it sucked so freakin bad. it was hard for him to understand and at times he would tell me i was acting like a whore but in reality it was just my addiction!!! there all types of addictions serious not just to drugs and alchol. you can be addicted to just about anything and everything but the top three from my experience are drugs alchol and sex!! they way i dealt with it was i just told myself that i wouldnt have sex for a month or two to get it out of my system then after wards i just played like i didnt want it which sort of tricked myself into thinking i really didnt. :) hope this helps


I actually no what your going through in a way. I started havin sex just before i was 16 and i loved everything about it. I now am not having sex with him anymore and i miss it like mad, i have even planned to have sex with his cousin, im not the kindda person to sleep around but i need sex so bad. im sexually frustrated at the age of 16 its not right haaaa if you think he feels the same tell him but if you no he doesnt dont as i no what guys are like, he'll probably play at it to his advantage good look be safe and enjoy sex xx


if you are in love with this guy i would just tell him and c wot happens


have sex

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