Three years ago while I went away with my son to visit the inlaws, I came back and found text messages that my husband had sent to another woman.
The one particular message that made me suspicious was one he sent saying he was thinking of her. It wasn't just this one woman he was sending messages to, he was sending Valentine's messages too.
When I confronted him, he told me he was having a hard time because of my depression and that I was pushing him away.
I know that he hasn't had any physical relationships but this still hurt me. He probably doesn't love me as much as I love him, although he tells me he does and can't live without me.
I don't know what to believe - please help.
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