But, in the last two months he's gained about twenty pounds and no matter what I cook to make him lose weight, he can't and when I try and initiate sex he just says he doesn't feel in the mood. I know it's because he's unhappy with his size but he won't do anything about it.
I want him to exercise but he won't get a gym membership, even after I suggested that we'd share it. I'm at my wits end. I need sex. I need him. He's been drinking more lately and I think that's why we can't lose the weight but I don't want to tell him to stop hanging out with his friends. I love him! I've even talked to him about this but he just shrugs it off.
I'm getting desperate but I can't talk to anyone else about it because I'm too embarrassed. How can I get him to act?
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