Give him space
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7. Leave him be
Men like to take action and be proactive, they show they care with actions. He works hard because he wants to provide for you and show you he loves you, not just because he loves his job.
Understand that this is one way he shows he loves you and let him know that you appreciate the way he provides for you and the family. This should lead to him showing you more respect and encourage a happier relationship.
8. Accept his compliments
If you've been together a long time and you lack confidence it becomes automatic that you brush off compliments. Your bloke may say: 'You look nice in that top' and you reply with: 'Oh it's just an old thing, it's too tight, too loose, the wrong colour, etc'.
This sort of reaction makes him feel rejected and he may think there's no point in giving you compliments.
Next time he gives you a compliment accept it, say thank you and use it as an opportunity to flirt and get what you want. Whether that's more sex or him to do some dusting!
9. Flirt and tease
Most women are very good at flirting and teasing but get out of the habit when they get into a relationship. Women have 52 flirting tricks up their sleeve, men only have 10. And women should go 3 times over the top so he starts to pay attention,' says Peter.
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