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'He cheated on me with girls from social networking sites!'

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Our reader needs your advice. She's just found out her partner's cheating on her. Problem is, she still loves him. Read her sex story and help her decide what to do!

I had been with my boyfriend for four years when I found out he was cheating on me. We were living together and were close with each other's families.

Our relationship was a happy one until the last year, then something changed with him. He became distant, hardly ever touched me and showed me very little affection. When I brought it up he became argumentative or said he was tired. He ignored my requests to talk it over, even when I resorted to sleeping in the spare room.

I then found out why he was being so cold. He goes away on a lot of business trips and I discovered that he had cheated on me every time he went away. He searched for girls in the local area on a social networking site and met up with them when he was in town. I discovered that this had been going on for two years!

When I confronted him about it, he denied it to my face. He got angry and accused me of making it up, he even had me doubting myself for a moment. I told him we were breaking up anyway and the nicest thing he could do would be to tell me to my face, but he still lied.

Everyone thinks he is such a perfect boyfriend: a kind, generous gentleman, but he just seemed angry that he'd been found out. I can just imagine how he turned the charm on these girls to get them into bed.

I felt, and still feel, sick about what he has put me through. I feel like dying because it hurts so much. I love him so much and didn't expect this to happen to us. I was crying for days, barely eating a scrap. I'm trying to hate him for being so cruel to me but am finding it hard 'cause I still love him. I know there is no turning back and it's good that I found out now rather than later, but it still hurts. What should I do? How can I get over him?

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Jc

Well I hope you went to the doc just in case .sad as it he not crying over you so put It in a box and move on .there are men out there who are looking for good women Like you be happy you found out now put a smile on your face because he was not The one .good luck for tomorrow .

Tina

If a person has this kind of habit it's awful He has this habit and he can never change (personal experience )it's up to u .....do u want to accept this or else find someone who only love you not anyone else.i know it's so difficult but living with this kind of person is even more difficult

carol

Hi lovey. Put some slap on and you can come out with me and my mates for a good drink. I'll help you cop off with someone and you'll soon forget about... what's his name again? See - it's worked already!

Margaret

My ex was constantly doing the same thing to me via social networking and dating sites. Walk away, once a cheat always a cheat, u can never trust someone who betrays you in this way. They will constantly do it just for the thrill and you will always catch them out. Constant excuses and apologies follow being caught out. It destroys you emotionally and mentally and from experience I know it never stops. It leaves u with no self confidence. You say u love him but to do this to you he doesn't feel the same and shows u no respect whatsover by his actions. I kicked him out after being with him 23 yrs. Best thing I ever did, someone who truly loves you won't hurt you in this way.

Pauline

I found out my partner was cheating on me via social networking and internet dating sites, seeking an alternative sex life, I found photo's on his PC, he had a string of lovers, bringing them back to the house when I was visiting friends or family.. I went through a bad time, I was made out to be the one in the wrong spying on him, having to remain in the house with a *stranger* who set up a web cam in his bedroom for his own use and to see if I went in there, and a year later we sold our house, and he moved in with his then lover. I have since found his adverts, on certain sites again stating he was happy with his current girlfriend but she was no good in bed. I was heart broken, however 2 years on its a relief I escaped, but I feel so sorry for his girlfriend, as he will never change. The worst thing is a similar thing has happened to my good friend. Please be careful, and look after your Health!!!

JULIE

dONT TAKE HIM BACK UNLESS YOU ARE SURE YOU CAN FORGIVE AND FORGET OTHERWISE YOU WILL NOT HAVE A LIFE AS THE TRUST IS GONE BELIEVE ME I HAVE BEEN THERE ITS NOT A NICE PLACE TO BE IT ALMOST DESTROYD ME MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY SO PLEASE THINK LONG AND HARD BEFORE YOU TAKE HIM BACKAS I FOUND OUT ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT GOOD LUCK IN WHATEVER YOU DECIDE XX

Tracy

Why bother with all this heartache and resorts to spying on him the thing is trust, if you take this man back you must erase the past and move forward, if not there is a wonderful man out there who only wants to be with you. Life is to short to waste on a man who by his actions really dosen't want to be with you.

Carmin

I truly believe one of the worst feelings one can feel is when the love of your life hurt you so bad that it litterly feels like some one is stabbing you in the hart. The best advise I can give is to forgive him and move on and don't EVER blaim yourself! Always remember, you can do anything about matters that is not in your control. He made the choises, not you.

Kathryn

I had to reply to this. I met my partner online and thought we were very happy, then I discovered his internet dating and networking too, he was registered to multiple sites, and still screening ladies months into our relationship, IM and chatting with them, we split, imediately, though he didnt admit to it straight away, I was sickended and so let down, I was signed off work with depression for weeks, I felt totally wronged. We got back together as I was still so sure and he confessed to being a member, he came off facebook (one to name but a few more worring that are designed for affairs, how screwed up is the internet these days) so now I have to trust him...... if you really want to find the truth, you'll have to spy his pc/cellphone, as thats the only way to find out....you can buy a usb product on the web that will do this for you.....best of luck my dear x

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