What's the secret of fun foreplay and great sex? Your body hotspots - and not just the ones you knew about! We've got some great foreplay tips on your unusual erogenous zones and what your bloke can do to turn you on. We've also got a few foreplay tricks for you to try on him, too!
Foreplay is one of the most important elements of a healthy sex life – almost as important as the main event itself!
The scalp is full of nerve endings that makes playing with your hair a big turn on.
What he can do: Men love playing with women’s hair. Get into the bath or shower together and get him to wash your hair and massage your scalp.
Oooh rating: If he’s got it right, you won’t want him to stop! 8/10
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It doesn’t matter if you don’t have perfect legs, the hotspots are still the same: toes, ankles, back of the knees.
Did you know that the patch of skin behind the ear is a real hotspot?
What he can do: He can tease you – moving from nibbling and kissing your ear, ear lobe and behind. Some women can actually orgasm through ‘ear sex’ but don’t put any pressure on it, just enjoy the sensations.
Oooh rating: Send the kids to the grandparents for the night, you won’t want to be disturbed! 6/10.
An often neglected area but giving your back a little attention can really help your sex drive.
What he can do: Anything! Massage, stroking, kissing, licking… working down from the nape of your neck to your bottom. And he can do all this while playing with your clitoris with his fingers or a vibrator
Perhaps because we often hide our tums, when it’s touched sensuously it feels a bit naughty and can be a big turn on.
What he can do: First of all, don’t worry about any stretchmarks or love handles. Relax, lie back and enjoy. Ask him to very gently kiss and stroke your tummy, kiss and caress it.
Oooh rating: Butterflies in your tummy and then some! 7/10
Any area of the body that has hair is particularly sensitive.
What he can do: Ban him from touching your nipples and instead get him to kiss, nibble and gently blow on the skin around your armpits and under your breasts. Hot and cold sensations work well on this area so ask him to pop an ice cube in his mouth or to try a warming massage oil.
Oooh rating: Warn the neighbours that they might be kept up! 7/10
The bellybutton is extremely sensitive and there are nerves that run down to your groin.
What he can do: Slowly circle your bellybutton with his fingers. If you like it he can start licking your bellybutton and gently insert his finger in and out, rubbing it firmer and kissing harder.
Oooh rating: Will stoke up the fire, or make you giggle – who knows! 6/10
This erogenous zone can send shivers down your spine, literally, as the nerves around this area are connected to the nerves in your genitals.
What he can do: Start by drawing very small circles with his finger along the collar bone and make those circles bigger. Move from your collarbone to your neck, kissing and licking.
Oooh rating: You’ll have to be peeled off the ceiling. 9/10
The v-shaped area between the hip bones going down to his groin is a super sensitive area for him.
What you can do: Gently stroke and kiss the area, but don’t go anywhere else although he might want you to – this is about teasing him and getting him in the mood. Some men like quite firm massage of this area and it can help his erection
Oooh rating: Keep him firm and long lasting. 10/10
These are one of the most sensitive areas of the body, plus many experts believe that there’s a link between the length of his middle finger and his libido!
What you can do: Show him exactly how you’d like to treat his penis if you were going to give him oral sex by acting out what you’d do to his hands and fingers. Suck his fingers with different intensity, stroke and caress his hands, kiss and lick his palm and fingers.
Oooh rating: Will re-ignite both libidos, just make sure he’s washed his hands! 9/10.
You don’t have to be in the same room as your man to get him going.
Massage shouldn’t just be for when you have strained or pulled muscles – it’s one of the most erotic things you can do to each other without actually having sex.
Remember what it was like to kiss someone when you were younger?
We all know about aphrodisiacs and their powers to get both men and women going, so start by getting hold of some of the ones you and your guy like the best.
Stripping for fun for your fella is a surefire way to get him going and it’ll make you feel really sexy too!